Does he like video games more than me?

I speak from experience when it comes to video games . I used to have a rather major addiction to them, and it's very addictive . To some, it can go to the point that they shut everyone in their lives out and they also start shirking responsibility . It's very unhealthy as it can damage lives before the addict is even aware that they're losing friends and family .

Okay, I think that the chances are that he has become addicted . If this is a regular thing, then it's even more likely . You need to confront him . Don't do it in a way that shows you're angry, but rather do it in a way that shows you're disappointed and upset that he cares for them so much more than you . He needs a wake-up call, and to see that he's hurting you should be enough . If he doesn't care, he's not worth your time, and you should move on . He'll soon regret it, but by then, it'll be too late .

It's not that he doesn't like you it's just that you shouldn't really bother a man when he is saving the world . LOL

If he was in the middle of playing a video game, it's pretty much a waste of time talking to a guy . You have a better chance of a snickers bar actually responding and remember what was said . I remember growing up playing a video game and my mom would try and ask me to do something or told me something, and when I was done playing the video game it was as if she never said anything . I wouldn't remember anything . So if you were talking with your boyfriend while he was playing his video game, chances are he remembered nothing, because that's just the way boys are . If you're a girl and you're reading this, just an FYI, lol never expect anything from a guy when he's playing a video game if you're talking to him . His body might be there, but his brain isn't .

So it could be that he totally didn't even realize what he was saying when he was talking to you and playing his game . Don't take it personal, EVERY guy is like that . But if it's bothering you, then don't be afraid to call him and let him know how you feel . Too many times girls DON'T tell a guy how they're feeling, and the girl just gets really mad, and the guy has no clue why . So if you're feeling a certain way, don't be afraid to tell him .

But when you do talk to him, start with how you feel . Don't start attacking him because it will put him on the defensive and he will naturally fight back . Start with telling him how it made you feel that he never got back to you .

If this is a one time thing, then don't worry about it . But if it happens a lot, then chances are, the relationship doesn't mean as much to him as it does to you, and you will keep getting hurt . We make time for what is important and what is a priority to us . If we are in a relationship that we really care about the other person, then we will do whatever it takes to talk to them or spend time with him . And if it doesn't seem that way with him, then chances are, it's not as big of a deal to him, and you're just a girlfriend to him .

But like I said, talk to him, tell him how you feel and go from there . If it's a one time thing, don't stress about it, it happens, we're boys, we're stupid . But if it keeps happening, it might be time to move on .

Maybe you should think of a way that suits both of your needs, like going to his house and playing with him or something . That way you'll be with him and he'll still get to play .
Although, it does sound like he is going over the top with the video games .

The most important aspect of a relationship is communication. Let your boyfriend know how you feel. Tell him that you feel like he likes his video games more than you. Chances are that he will reassure you that you are definately more important.

I have had a couple friends who were dating guys who seemed to like sports or their vehicle more than their girlie. I don't think that guys always notice when a girl feels like she is less important that something in his life...until you talk to him about it.

Dont confront him about it just yet. He may have actually been playing video games. When he's ready to call you, he will. It may not be when you want him to call, but he'll call. Trust me, I have the same problem.

I agree with the anonymous person

Maybe he is not yet ready for a serious relationship .
or if it is just out of the blue he might just be that he is having problems and not confronting you and video games is his way to clear his mind. Confront him bout it and ask him will you please call me before you star playing your video game
or say every time your game is loading call me maybe it will help you talk more .