I met Dave in an extra curricular dance club in college last year . At that point, I was new, he was much more experienced . I enjoyed dancing with him because I had an immense attraction to him, (we got to rumba and tango together ! ) more so personality than looks, even though he's physically attractive . He did had a girlfriend at the time, but we innocently flirted a bit as we would be entangled in dancing . Now single, he made it a point to call me on my birthday and ask if he could come along to celebrate after not seeing me after almost a year . He did come, but he brought a friend, another woman who he went to high school with . They are "just friends" according to both sources . But it still put me in a confused state . Seeing him to ignited my crush on him, and he is still the same guy strong attractive dancer I tangoed with a year ago ! So of course I'm contemplating every opportunity to want to see him . But without coming on way too strong . Any advice on if he could possibly be interested and what I should/shouldn't do ?
Ask him if he wants to get a cup of coffee, tea, lunch, or where ever you can hold a conversation . Don't ask him "out on a date" (be more specific: coffee, tea so that you way you don't come on too strong), but instead ask him if he would like to "catch up . " I would totally do this to get some info and see if he is actually seeing anyone . If he's interested in the "just a friend girl" then hands off . If he is truly single then see if he would like to go out . You should wait about a week or two to ask him out after the initial "catch up-date" so you won't come on too strong; unless of course you get lucky and he schedules a date while on your info-date . Good luck . ;D
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