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How can I stop guys from telling me dirty comments?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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How can I stop guys telling me dirty jokes about my breasts? Even if they don't say a bad comment they just stare like if they didn't had anything else to do . I know my breasts are over sized and even if I cover them up they keep staring . Is there anyway I can make them stop ?

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Quackpotty
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Quackpotty (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
Sorry, but guys will stare . It's horrible when some bastards make comments like that . It's often referred to as sexual harassment, and you can tell teachers or other trusted adults . Many people don't realize just how hurtful some of these things are . I really feel for girls that have to deal with this sort of crap . It's never wanted (not truly anyway) and it is never needed .

Okay, what 'thatswhatyourmomsaid' said actually made a lot of sense . I totally agree with the whole embarrass the bastards thing . However, that particular comment might not be the best one that you can choose . It draws attention to your breasts, and I think that's not what you want to do, is it ? You want something that'll draw the idiots' attention away . What I suggest, is that you make loud comments to friends like "don't guys look pathetic when they can't find our faces . " It'll take their attention away from your breasts and hopefully wake them up a little . If that doesn't, slap them . HARD . Make their spit swing out of their mouths and slap them on the back of their heads when you do so . That'll wake them up . Scream at them and make a scene that they will never forget . They'll get the message, and then some - especially if it's in front of their friends and teachers .

The way to reduce attention is also to cover up a little more . Don't wear tight or revealing tops . A sweater might work well too . If you're in USA, this is a good season for that as it's still cold there, isn't it ?

Okay, this might not make me too popular, but perhaps it might be correct . Have you ever noticed that when you have something, or you start to get interested in something, all of a sudden, you notice it everywhere ? I've seen that especially with cars or with whatever job I'm doing . Perhaps, because you've noticed how large your breasts are, you're also noticing all the comments coming about them more than what you used to ? Don't let pricks like those bother you with their displays of stupidity bother you . If you don't, perhaps you won't get as many of them

I apologize for guys like that . I REALLY hate them because they make all guys look like sex obsessed nuts without two brain cells to rub together . I hope that you realize that not all guys are like that, and that you will find friends that will support you when you find the minority idiots .
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thatswhatyourmomsaid Hear hear. sound advice. haha - 9 months ago
Answerer Thanks ! I meant it too . - 9 months ago

Jarett
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
Well like you said, covering them up is a smart idea . But are they your friends ? Just guys that see you ?
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Question Asker No, they are not my friends - 9 months ago
Answerer Oh ok . Well to be honest hun, there are always going to be stupid boys that act like stupid boys . But if you know them, and they talk like that, just tell them that you don't appreciate it, and you're going somewhere else . - 9 months ago
Question Asker Ok thanks I'll try that - 9 months ago
jezebel1787 Don't hang around them. If it's unavoidable, tell them how their comments make you feel. You deserve respect regardless of what you are wearing, however I recommend analyzing what message you could be sending either with your clothes or with your actions. If a woman seems to be flirtatious there is that double standard that she is looking for sexual attention, thus men can use her in a disrespectful way verbally and physically. Be professional and mature about it. - 9 months ago
Answerer Yeah guys are stupid. And young ones are immature and stupid. Don't let it bother you hun. I know it's easier said then done. But just feel sorry for them, that they are really that bored and dumb that they have to make stupid comments like that. - 9 months ago
 

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adorkable
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adorkable (Age:Under 18)      When: 8 months ago
Why don't you just. Slap them?
isn't that what most girls do?
us guys don't appreciate it , but hey , we'll learn not to stare:P
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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)      When: 9 months ago
Embarrass them in front of someone, preferably not a pervy pal. Say 'what you staring at. Do ya want a picture'. My face is up here.

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Anonymous User (Age:Over 45)      When: 9 months ago
Hey, it is part of living in our world today . The kind of guys that are rude enough to stare at your boobs, are the same rude guys that stare at girls boobs period . These guys don't care about size, they just cared about getting a cheap peek . And every girl knows what I am talking about . The guys with class will not make you feel as if you are exposed ! The creeps will make you feel exposed if you were wearing a tent ! So go hanging around the classy guys ! They are out there .
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thatswhatyourmomsaid
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thatswhatyourmomsaid (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Um . Make THEM feel embarrassed about staring . Be like "hi, yea my face is up here thanks" . Just that's what I would do if I had bigger boobs .
cos I mean if they feel embarrassed, they're less likely to do that again to you . And if people see you standing up for yourself, you'll get a little more respect as well . You shouldn't have to hide what you've got; its not right that you feel uncomfortable .
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pearl1979 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
You can't control what people say about you . Those guys that are telling dirty jokes are immature . Be gone with it . Its shouldn't concern you . Be happy with who you are .
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