I figure if you bring it up, then you want to discuss it . Why bring it up and then refuse to talk about it any further ? Usually it is something from out in left field . Did it just slip out of your mouth before you could stop it or is it all part of a carefully orchestrated plan to drive women insane and keep us turned upside down ?
Well I know I have brought something up that I really wanted to talk about with a guy I liked . I set the whole thing up . And told him to meet me at his locker the next day and everything . But when I saw that he actually showed up and was interested into what I had to say or do . I froze and chickened out . So maybe just like me, they lost that confidence they had in themselves about it and feared some sort of rejection from you . Or maybe they just want to drive us women insane .
I will go with the driving me insane conclusion . He does it all the time . I think that it is about control too . - 9 months ago
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That would be an odd characteristic though . If he does it repeatedly on purpose . Does he usually have confidence in what he tells you ? - 9 months ago
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Usually he will blurt something out and then when I ask what he meant by it, he won't look at me and then he will clam up and refuse to talk about it. We could be talking about "oranges" and then he will just blurt out something totally out of left field, but can't elaborate on it. In anything else, he is very confident and sure of himself. If he wants something (in his business) he will go for it. Now he won't talk to me or says that he doesn't know. We really don't talk anymore. - 9 months ago
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It might be a subject in something he isn't comfortable in. No one really has confidence in every single field. So just come at him calmly and show that you understand that it probably is something important but is shy about it or doesn't know how to put it. - 9 months ago
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