We've been together for almost a year . We broke up for two months, and while we were broken up, I dated one guy, messed around with him once, and when he and I broke up, I started seeing another guy and messed around once with him . Nothing major . 2nd base, if you could even call it that . Well, when my current boyfriend and I got back together, I told him nothing happened between me and the others . It finally came out, and now he doesn't know if he can still be with me because of the fact that I lied and the fact that he doesn't know if he can see me without picturing me with them . I'm making the trip to see him this weekend, basically to test the waters and see if he still wants to be with me . He's asked me if I have any ideas as to how he can forgive me . He says he's willing to try, but lately, he barely calls, and when we're on the phone, he's really distant, and doesn't seem like he wants to talk to me . He says if he didn't want to talk, he wouldn't call . Guys, what do you think ? Do you think I still have a chance ?
I would lean towards no . But the fact that he asked if you had any ideas on how he could forgive you is kind of scary . Sounds like he's trying to tilt the relationship in his favor, and make you EARN him back . And anytime you have that, that is not healthy . A relationship should never be uneven like that . He will keep bringing up the past, and he will continually make you "pay" for it, either emotionally, with sexual favors, or whatever, you can fill in the blank . But to be honest, if he can't forgive you, then it's over . Yes it's your fault, because you shouldn't have lied . But the fact of the matter is, is that your relationship is unhealthy and is based on a bad foundation now .
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