One of my close friends is going out with a guy who calls her a whore and a slut when they are not fighting. Lately he hasn't had a job, won't even look for one , while she works her ass off. He'll say such things as "oh you ONLY made 500 dollars?" or "oh whatever you whore all you do is flip fries" My boyfriend and I have told him so many times we hate it when he treats her like that. And stephs response? "oh I know I might dress sluty sometimes but he shouldn't call me that" This girl is awesome, hard working and puts up with a bum boyfriend who critisizes her ALL the time. What should we do to get his ass up and get a freaking job?
vortexofdoom97
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
If he's not a total douche, he's kidding, and might think you're kidding when you tell him this. Make sure he knows that you're serious, and if he's a good guy at all, he'll back off.
This guy sounds abusive and if he's constantly criticizing your friend, she probably feels bad about herself. I don't think the job has anything to with it except maybe the guy feels like a loser himself so he's taking it out on the person closest to him - he's projecting.
Your friend needs to get out of that situation but as her friend, the best thing you can do is be there for her, listen to her when she's upset, and remind her that she's awesome. If yu tell her what to do, she might resent it. Just be supportive and keep reminding her that she deserves the best,
thisblondegirl
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Talk some sense into your friend, she needs to realize what a douche this guy is. Have a heart to heart with her and tell her how everyone thinks of him, ask her of his good attributes (if any) out way his shitty attitude.
But the only one who can get rid of him is her, so help her make the right decision, don't tell her what she should do. =)
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