My ex and I broke up and he stopped calling me. I went to his state (long distance relationship) and he wouldn't see me but he called me and said he was kinda upset I came. I asked if we could see each other and he said he couldn't because he had a girl and he was going to stay the night with her because she had training the next day. I was crushed but didn't let him hear it and I tried to let him go but he stayed on the phone and asked where I was staying and how long. Well few days later I talked to a girl he talks to and she said he lied and that he doesn't have a girl he was trying to get me to stop. He thinks I cheated on him which is false
If you broke up with him, why would you think he would want to see you just because you traveled to him? Did he know you were coming? It seems like you just took a whole lot for granted, here! You need to talk to him, and see if he wants to get back together. If not, you need to just forget him, and move on!
I'm trying to get a hold of him but he is so upset with me over false ideals that he won't answer my calls. Why should I be blamed for cheating when I never did. I messed up breaking up with him a lot and regret it but I am human and messed up. It is not that easy just to let go of someone you love. That is what is wrong with you damn men. You get so mad over false shit that you don't want to listen to a lady. If I would of cheated on him hell I would of been woman about it and told him. - 9 months ago
Well if you broke up with him he has all the right in the world to tell you whatever he wants. I mean if you really want him back all you can do is let him know how much you care for him and then let him have time to make up his mind.
This question would be easier to answer if I knew who did the breaking up, but all in all it seems pretty cut and dried. As a guy, I can't really blame him for what he's doing. If you guys are broken up, who is to say that you still have to call each other or hang out? If you dumped him, he's probably hurting to the point that he doesn't want to talk to you. If he dumped you, he's obviously not into you any more, so why would he call? Even if you two made the decision together, it's probably still a little weird for him to think of you as anyone other than "his girlfriend", so he doesn't know how to talk to you normally yet. If you really want to keep in contact with him, give him time and space, and try again later. Otherwise, I'd say let him be. You guys broke up for a reason, it's time for you to move on. As far as him lying to you about a girl, that one's a no brainer. He's obviously trying to make you jealous. He wants to show you that he can get along just fine without you, and that there are plenty of other women out there who find him attractive. Personally, I'd say ignore the lying and do your best to cut him out of your life. Move on and come to terms with the fact that you'll probably never speak to each other again.
Wow it sounds very harsh well maybe he is just hurt the worst a woman can do is hurt a mans pride and if a guys pride is hurt some of us might retreat and hide to protect ourselves and our feelings so what you need to do is try to have a talk with him and it might take a while but make sure you two meet in a controlled public place then talk to him and let him know whatever you have to let him know and make sure he understands and make sure you two get to a mutual agreement then keep meeting after a couple of meetings things should go back to the way they where or at least things would be clear
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