This freaking p*sses me off... Why do girls say the F word to their kids? For instance I know this one girl that has a 22 year old baby and the other day she said f word and her baby REPEATED IT instantly! I then told her see why do you say that in front of her? She said nothing... Pisses me off that these girls these days have to swear bad language at their children to get their reaction! ARGH!
Update: LOL... no this needs to be corrected... she has a 22 month old baby... SORRY...
2 months ago
Well, not all moms swear at their children like that. The best answer I know is that it all depends on the mothers upbringing, morals and values. Maybe that's the same way HER parents were with her so she sees no problem with it. Or maybe she just doesn't care if she swears in front of the kid or not. I find it very wrong to swear at children, or anyone actually. This woman might not..? Its hard to say that MOMS in general do it because that is not true. Maybe its just the moms you happen to of come across.
I don't swear at my son how ever there has bean time's were I have swore in front of my son to someone else and I have always apologized to my son, sometimes I think it's just (with me any way) when I get worked up something. But I do agree I have friend's who constantly swears in front of children and I think sure she/he can contain them self's better than that. My son however will demand a apology if he here's an adult swearing lol
I was getting a ride from this girl once and her 4 year old was in the backseat misbehaving and she turned around and started cussing her out like "Brianna put that g*d paper down what the f*k is wrong with you I'm not f*king playing with you I'll beat your a*". I was in the passenger seat like "Okayyyyy". Maybe because my parents didn't do that with me, I just don't think it's right and borderline abusive.
As far as the girl in your story, it sounds like maybe she didn't have a lot of decorum herself and passed it down to her child. It's not cute for a 22 month old to be cursing like that, she should have put a stop to it. Those are the same kids that end up cussing the mom out and being like "f*k You b*" in her own house because she wasn't taught how to act growing up. I seriously fear for the upcoming generations it seems like we are on a decline.
If you're in the habit of swearing, having a child around won't instantly put a stop to that. But I know more mothers who don't use that kind of language than mothers who do.
Some people just do not know how to act around children because they are kids themselves. Don't worry about them being idiots its their lives there messing up; But I do know how you feel its like when I see people with there little ones on those leash things. I get so p*ssed whenever I see that its like there being treated like dogs . :) :P :D XD
In general it's probably just overall poor parenting, relaxed societal norms, and too much emphasis on schools to raise the kids. Of course the demands of most families for both parents to have a least one job just further stresses the parents so they are likely less concerned about what exactly they say around their kid, especially when they are under the stress and pressures of work. I was at the movie Public Enemy (the gangster movie about John Dillinger) and there was a guy with his 3-4 year old kid. It was a violent/bloody movie with some bad language and at 10pm at night and the guy brought his little kid. Then he gave some under his breath commentary involving some 4 letter words as well. So it's unfortunately its not that uncommon.
In comparison, I know another person who raised her baby with basic sign language so she could communicate she wanted food/drink/etc which was useful until she began to speak. Overall though it seems as if too much emphasis is put on schools trying to raises kids, and the parents don't put enough quality effort into raising their kids, especially with some structure.
I have no problem with swearing and I do it all the time around my friends, but I will never swear around my parents. They never do around me and I never do around them. Its just disrespectful. If parents don't respect their children then their children will never be respectful to them.
i don't really see a problem with bad words =S I mean I've been saying them since I was little. even my brother says he taught me the bad words in spanish when I was very little. Of course this doesn't mean I'm uneducated or whatever. I don't say them to anyone unless if I'm mad haha mostly just playing around. Aslong as you are raised right and don't say them every 5 minutes I don't see a problem with bad words to be honest. and by the way that 22 year old baby has much bigger problems than the "Fword". =P j/k
I think those moms (and dads) are SO irresponsible. THEY"RE KIDS. They need to be taught the right manners and things at an early age. Maybe when they're older, they can decide for themselves if they want to swear or not, but seriously, it SICKENS me to think that a BABY that's 22 MONTHS OLD is saying stuff like that. - 2 months ago
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