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Getting his attention HELP!

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emzy-89 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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hi everyone.
girls, if you had your eye on a guy who could get pretty much any girl that he wanted, what you do to get his attention?

guys, what would make a girl stand out for you?

i don't want to do anything slutty or anything like that because that's not the kind of girl I am and that's not the kind of guy he is.

thanks!


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MadHatterni
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MadHatterni      When: 4 months ago
Sluts only get to the bed
Good girls only get to the movies...

You got to be different and see if you like anything he likes so you can share it with him. If he likes the xbox 360 then ask to come over and play it with him and show you got skills. (Only an example)

Be your self and be around him and look out for him, sooner or later he will gain interest instead of thinking your one of the crowd with T and A.

Your a female work with what you have. If your smart ask him if he needs help studying and make time alone and find out everything he likes so you can show him you like some of those things too.
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bcrombie
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bcrombie      When: 5 months ago
Have an attitude of borderline cockiness. The better you are with guys, the less you have to do. It is very rare that guys come across a secure girl, be that girl. Don't let your emotions take control of your interactions, that'll f*** you up. Do not attention seek. Be the leader of your friends, show you are the best. Be fun, not an emotional drag. I can tell you right off the bat that you are putting too much importance on him, that will set you back a few steps. I love this quote, "confidence is contageous - and so is not having confidence."

The first question is all in your head. It's his behavior that makes you think that he can have any girl he wants. You know what is really strange? After we've been with someone for a year or so, we think we know someone completely but really, all we know is what they have told us - stories, for example. Do not put him as more important than you, you are setting yourself up for disappointment.

By the way, if you want to know how to dress, wear a red shirt. It is a huge turn on when we see a girl in red, she sticks out like a sore thumb. Good luck with this, I'm sure you'll do fine.

And, what is so great about this guy? Because you want to be the girl who gets him out of all of the other girls?
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Amrit
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Amrit      When: 6 months ago
Smile at him whenever he looks at you. Occasionally, wave your hand indicating "HI". If he happens to talk to you, laugh whole-heartily & naturally at his jokes/humor, it should not appear to him that you are laughing artificially.

Clothing is important. Wear attractive clothes in which you will look more feminine. e.g. wear a pink top with white linings or stripes and a white pant. Wear a pink bangle and matching shoes. If you tie a ribbon to your hair, wear it pink in color. This will look outstanding. Mostly wear pink, as it looks good on girls. This way, you will look outstanding in your personality & appearance.

Boys love it when girls wear everything matching. Most of the time, wear matching clothes when you are around him. e.g. your nail-polish color, your ribbon/hairband color, your bracelet/bangle color and if possible, your handbag/schoolbag color. Make everything matching.
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TessAshwin How boring....everything matching...looks awkward.....lol. - 5 months ago
Answerer Then, I guess that is my preference. ;-) - 5 months ago

tastethis
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tastethis      When: 6 months ago
look at him sometimes and just smile naturally. Seriously, smile all the time; and you cannot be to robotic on your smiles too, just do it however you done if before. Also, try to laugh at his jokes alot. Well basically I would just fall for the smile.
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chocolate-lover =D I like that .... - 6 months ago
 

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ButterflyWings247
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ButterflyWings247      When: 5 months ago
Just be yourself, if your crush isn't into the trampy kind of girls (which is very good), get to know him better. Hangout in groups, so he can see how you interact with people. When you see him give him a smile and ask him how his day was. In order for a guy to be attractive to a girl, the girl needs confidence. After you are done with your conversation with him, say goodbye to him with a smile and briefly, hold on to his arm before leaving, so he knows you enjoyed talking to him.
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choochootrane
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choochootrane      When: 6 months ago
It depends on what you mean by a guy who can get any girl he wants:
1) if you mean he's a player, the best way is to talk to him, but like a friend. DO NOT flirt with him. be very deadpan, and calm. Basically, communicate to him that you don't think he's anything special. He will wonder why is charms aren't working on you and try to figure out why. Trust me, you'll definitely get his attention
2)if you mean that he is so cute, nice and smart that he could have any girl, I'd say be yourself. He probably gets waaaaay too many advances a day. Be very very very kind and save the drama for your girlfriends. Guys love low-maintenance, sweet, kind girls who aren't afraid to relax.
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