I'm so confused about my feelings. There is this girl who I've known for all of high school and I think I like her but I'm not completely sure. I think she likes me only as a friend. - She says I know a lot about her - She said I was her best (guy) friend - When she signed my yearbook she said it was the most intense thing she has written - When somebody suggested that we go to prom together we both said no - When I signed her yearbook saying that she was my best friend, she told me how nice that was of me - She knows little about me, she says I'm quiet - We walked together to class in the morning - At prom she seemed to seek me out when a slow song came on - I felt guilty after not seeing at graduation - My family thinks there is something going on between us On the other hand, - We never see each other outside of school - Every time we've talked since graduation I've started the conversation - She said it would hard to imagine us hanging outside of school
So what do you think? If you have any questions ask away.
Well, it sort of sounds like there is a few mixed signals being thrown out. It's hard to say how she might feel about you, because on one hand, she sounds like she does have feelings for you, but on the other, it sounds like she likes you mutually. She could be doing this on purpose in hopes that you don't suspect anything, or she may not even realize that she is doing this. Did anything she wrote in your yearbook suggest anything in particular? And when she said no to going to prom with you, did she look shy or a bit flustered? As for figuring out how you feel, I think that's something only you can figure out. You will know for certain where your feelings stand in time. Maybe you should try to schedule meeting up after school to ascertain your feelings. Just tell her that you only want to spend time with her as friends, as you are not yet sure whether you like her as more than a friend or not quite yet.
...From my point of view, it seems like she's shy. It seems like she likes you, but is treading the line - she doesn't know if you like her or not...?
Some people go with the "friend-zone". I obviously don't know this girl... but there are times when girls hide their feelings because they don't want to mess things up.
Is she a more outgoing person, or does she seem to hold back sometimes...?
In my opinion, if you think you like her, you probably do. Unless she's reminding you of someone else you might like... but I think it's up to you. If you like her as a friend... can you picture yourself becoming more?
Common advice is to be upfront about it... but things are only ever as awkward as you let them be...
When she mentioned you're her best guy friend...and needless to mention YOU told HER she's your best friend...once the word friend is mentioned,...the situation is COMPLETELY SEALED! You've done everything to make sure she doesn't like you as anything else other than a very good friend...
I'm not saying you should blame yourself, but...you shouldn't blame her either. I think that if there was ever anything there, and I sense it might have been, but never anything too strong, that it's definitely gone and never to be rekindled ever again... That's my opinion ad least.
All of us have someone that we are interested in. Problem is, we typically have no idea how to tell them this, or more so, we are scared to tell them because, well, we are not sure if they feel the...
The few paragraphs before the section with the questions are just precursors to the 4 questions I ask/talk about in here. What I am getting at with all this, is why do girls like guys, and why do...
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