We've been hanging out a lot recently. He recently got MSN and I was the first person he added. We've been talking a lot at school and MSN. I'm not 100% sure he likes me but I can feel something there.
Anyways, so Thursday night he went to this party and this girl named Susan was there. Apparently Susan was all over him, lying on him, holding his hand and what not. When he got home I heard all about it but I asked ". But I thought there was something going on between Susan and Mike? " He assured me there wasn't. However, the next day when they all went to the movies Susan and Mike were making out. Again he comes home and tells me this and he's pretty upset. There was no indication that he liked or was even interested in Susan before this and I would know because he tells me everything.
While all this is going on I told him that he really didn't see what was going on (and I was referring to the fact that I like him, however, I'm not sure he knows) and he said "If I remain oblivious I do not have to face the truths I fear to confront". That left me a little confused. Personally, because I've called him oblivious before, I took it that he was basically telling me he didn't like me?
Then, I asked him to call me (it was our first time on the phone and I wanted to see if he actually would) and we talked for 7 and a half hours (all night). During this we were talking about who people liked and he said "We could always talk about us, but that would be realllly awkward". I asked him to say that again because I wasnt sure if that was what he said but he refused to repeat it. The conversation also included him flirting with me very heavily. For example, we were talking about how much he would enjoy me cooking breakfast for him in lingerie, how we liked to be cuddled, etc.
My question is. What's the deal? If he doesn't like me why would he spend seven and half hours on the phone with me, tell me all his problems, and flirt with me if he's not interested.? And can a long phone conversation possibly change his mind in the event that he doesn't like me?
It doesn't sound as if he's telling you that he doesn't like you at all. It sounds as if he was saying that if he remains oblivious of your feelings, he doesn't have to do anything about them. Perhaps he is afraid of doing something about them because he fears for your friendship.
I think that it is definitely possible that he might like you, but is just afraid of dealing with this out of fear of what would change. It would change, as it always does. Flirting is also a good sign of feelings. The seven and a half hrs call is a VERY good thing for cementing a friendship, and if you were to go further, than that even more so. Can it change the way he feels? It will certainly make his feelings for you much, MUCH stronger - whatever they be (friendship or something more). I doubt it will make his feelings worse, unless you were fighting for the entire time, which you weren't, so that's good.
I think he likes you, he's trying to make you jealous. Let him know that you really like him, I don't know if it will work, but you sure can try! Good luck~~~
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