I'm just wondering, there can be a really hot guy, known to be smart and has a good personality in his community (school, work, neighborhood, etc), and most women wouldn't approach him.
But celebrities, like Barack Obama and Brad Pitt, have girls swooning all over them. One gal even asked Tom Brady in public if he'd marry her!
Men, on the other hand, seem approach all good-looking women. At least those who aren't afraid or shy.
I think girls randomly ask celebrities out because all the excitement of meeting the person goes to their heads, and they get lost in the moment.
Plus, I would never ask Tom Brady out, but if I did and he rejected me (which he absolutely would without a second thought), I would never have to face him again. If I got rejected by the guy down the street, I might run into him every so often, and that might be a bit awkward.
Women are typically more selective in the dating process. Men are less picky because due to evolution it would make more sense for them to get as much women as possible to pass on their genes to the next generation. Women are more selective because they are wired to only want the best genes. I guess that is why men do the majority of the approaching today, it's just human nature.
Personally I wouldn't approach a guy just because he is good looking.
Because, we are afraid of rejection or might be out of his league. It can be very embarrassing and humiliating when a guy who is not only hot but is intelligent and is the "perfect" catch shoots you down. It's just easier to admire him from afar then run the risk. I know I would never approach a man like this for the reasons mentioned. link
Yo baller, ain't nuffin yo. You gots to be da chaser, knowatimsayin? Dude, you gots chicks hanging off yas in those picks yo! Go after dem. Peace playa.
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