Typical high school drama, it could possibly be because one of the popular kids seen you talking to a boy they like so they say something to get everyone p*ssed at you.
Honestly high school is all about impressions and labeling people. The populars can't be seen with those who don't fit in there group, and if something doesn't go there way or someone crosses them they make sure there high school time is hell. I'm personaly glad I graduated so I don't have to deal with that everyday. As for you I'm sure you have some nice friends you hang out with just keep hanging out with them let them know what's up and try and do the best you can at ignoring those being immature.
just don"t sleep with guys by senior year when at least 2-3 girls are pregnant everyone will have forgotten about your slut reputation to mock the pregos
During adolescence, image and perception is everything. and it can really hurt.
Not knowing anything about you, I'll try to recall the traits of slutty females from when I went to school.
Provocatively dressed, latest in fashion, lots of makeup chatty and flirty with all the popular boys; belong to the alpha clique any resemblance to Kelly Bundy
Advice if you recognize any of this: Tone it down. Other than that, talk to someone who is objective but you can rely on.
Well how did you get that reputation? Did you participate in promiscuous activities or did someone spread nasty rumors about you?
What is your social status? Do you have a group of friends you hang out with or are you a loner?
Think about how you dress. If you dress sexy, revealing, or in a body-conscious way you're gonna need to tone it down. that doesn't mean don't look fashionable and be frumpy - just keep it covered and look classy. Also if you look "cheap" try to go for better quality clothes they can be found anywhere even at Ross's.
Don't date any guys at your school or any of their friends. Sounds very exclusive and harsh. Why so harsh, you might ask? Because obviously they've heard about your reputation. Coming from someone who had that rep in junior high, the slut title pushes away good guys so pretty much the guys you will attract see you as the slut. You don't want to get hurt or cause any further damage to your name. If you do choose to date a guy, try to get someone out of town or isn't connected to the drama.
Also stick with one guy. If you have a lot of guy friends make sure you aren't really flirty with them in anyway that could be misconstrued. If you have a male interest date him for a long time, don't have a series of short relationships. You are gonna have to get to know a guy very well so you can tell what his intentions are. That takes time so don't be jumping fast in the sack if you have a habit of it, make sure you know any guy you have a relationship with inside and out.
Believe it or not, guys are often the sources of slutty reputations. It's not always a jealous girl that lied on you, sometimes it could be the guy who is bitter that you turned him down. Or maybe he got his feelings hurt because you liked someone else and he wanted to "ruin" you so he could have you. Or maybe someone you hooked up with told your business or someone else exaggerated and made you look bad.
Girls are just bitches. I wouldn't let it bother me if I knew it wasn't true. Just ignore them and shrug it off. After high school, everyone drops the whole act of trying to be cool and treating people like sh*t. I wouldn't agree with the person who said get in a relationship. If you have the "reputation", that guy might only be with you for that reason and it kind of defeats the purpose. Talk to guys but don't hang on them and don't cuss a lot. Just keep your chin up and walk with confidence. Some girls do it because they are jealous too. Good luck!
have you hears about that senior boy that got 7 girls pregeant all around the same time he says he is happy to be all their farthers...how is he going to support all those kids workingat burger king?
If you're wearing skimpy outfits and scolding guys for looking at your goodies, then that's to be expected. Have you been tossing around guys? Maybe it's that.
Hihi xD They call me a slut at school to xD But well, you probably stepped on someones ego and they're trying to make you look bad^^ Don't worry, if you're not acting like a slut you'll get rid of that image^^
dont worry about it dated a "slut' or whore. ANd to be honest if I was in ytour place I'd just ignor them but I probably never will be bcuase I don't flirt with guys or hang out with them. that's probably why I'm always single. just keep your head high and say WHATEVER! <3 one of my friends is a virgin and she's the "school slut". I think its preety stupid to be honest its just high school bull crap odds are its probably going to be in your life all the time in some form becuse people don't know how to grow up and shut up. I want to tell my friends that sometimes I do but they think I'm kidding its just dumb so ignore it.
I was labelled as the school slut, and whore. I didn't sleep around so to me there was no reason why they had to call me that. But my cloth were tight, so that might have had something to do with it. Just ignore them, they have nothing better to do then call you a slut (that's sad).
If you're not actually a slut, then why do you think you have that reputation? People don't just consider girls sluts for no reason. Stop doing whatever behavior that makes people thing you are slutty.
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