There's this guy that I've been messing around with, since the beginning of February. And we've been together physically a couple of times. After the first time, he told me he didn't want me to think he was out "for one thing" and that he didn't think we needed to continue talking. But in 2 days, he was texting me again and emailing me at work. A couple weeks later, we hook up again and then the next day, the same thing happens, he tells me to forget about him and that we need to stop talking. Then again, 2 days and he tells me it's not what he meant, it was a bad choice of words, etc. At this point, we decide to be only friends with benefits. Right? Well. Maybe. That weekend, he had 3 opportunity's to hook up with me and he was either too drunk, or came up with an excuse to not see me. Strange right?
Well, the plot thickens. A couple nights ago, he shows up at a place I go to a lot and I'm there with my friends, and when it's time to leave, I ask if he's going home with me, and he says yes & goes to his car. Shocker. I had no clue he'd ever follow through with anything ever again. Well, I took another guy friend over to his vehicle and handed his stuff to him out of my purse and he kissed me. Like pinned me against the car, caught me off guard and kissed me. I stopped him, made a couple comments, and walked off. BUT, you know who saw what happened and he got extremely mad and now will not talk to me even though I tried to explain what happened & said I was sorry, but it just happened and that I stopped him.
And last night, I went out and he came to the place I was at, he saw me having fun with my girlfriends, and he texts me to tell me that I sure didn't look like I was too bummed about it.?
My question is, does this honestly sound like a guy who cares more than he says he does? Or is this a guy who wants me to be available to him and only him at all times? Is he conflicted? To add to the mix, he's 25. I hate to even ask the question, but I'm so confused. If I need to elaborate or explain a bit more. Please ask.
Sorry, but at the begin you said that he said he didn't want you to think he was after one thing, yet that he doesn't think you should continue to talk? That makes it seem as if he is only after that one thing. Well, that's certainly the way that he makes himself look here.
It looks like he is wanting to have sex with you whenever he wants and that you must be ready at any given time. He's jealous of any other guys that you have around, so he wants you to be exclusively available to him. He wants you to not have anyone else that could get in between the two of you, but he isn't prepared to have a relationship with you. Overall, it sounds like a bad situation. This guy won't really ever respect you enough to have a decent relationship with you (relationships are more than just sex - it takes communication too, i.e., talking). I advise you to give this guy the boot. It'll only hurt you if he keeps this up.
This guy is a dog, selfish and arrogant. You need to 86 this punk and find yourself some self respect with a guy who self respects him self and you. Don't get me wrong this is so common but come on honey, you wanna know if the guy really cares, he don't he's board or lonely and for good reasons to dude doesn't know the true value of your goods your a tool he's pathetic and he's a pathetic fool that happens to be working this tool
Sounds like he only wants a booty-call. If you are fine with that, then ok. But if you don't want that kind of situation then move on and don't make yourself available to him.
He is letting you know through his words and actions that he only wants to be bothered with you when he wants some.
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