Ok, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 days but I have known him for 2 years. When I'm around him I am very quiet, and shy because I get nervous around him. I never was nervous around him until we started going out. And my friends are always asking me why I don't talk to him and its because I'm nervous. What should I do?
Well I'm in college and I have to admit I'm guilt of the same thing haha. I just hide it well lol. I find the best way to get past it is to watch a movie together. Not at the movies, but at your place or his. (Its more comfortable that way). Plus laughing at the same things can really make a connection stronger. Any who doesn't have the burning desire to tell the person they're will what they thought of the movie just after haha
This way there isn't too much pressure to talk, but you still get to share some common experiences.
Start talking to him. I know it sounds obvious but the only real answer here is to overcome your fear and talk to him - he is going out with you because he likes you, which means he probably very much so wants to talk to you. In fact out of all the people you could talk to, he is probably the one most interested in talking to you.
Just avoid the girly stuff, talk about something gender neutral and you will have his attention.
Take a deep breath, relax and just be yourself. The beauty of love is that if he is the right guy then there is very little that you can do wrong for him not to like you.
Most people who have been in your situation tended to be the ones who were worried about losing their partner for doing something wrong so they became very quiet around them. Love is the acceptance of the other individual as they are or as the saying goes, for better or for worse.
Girl I have Sooooo been there. It's hard because your friends are pressuring you and you feel bad about it. It gets better as you become more comfortable with dating each other. I dated this guy for a couple of weeks before I became comfortable with my boyfriend. Just be yourself. Its harder when you were friends before dating because now you are on a different level.
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