Two days after we break up, I get raped....

If I may offer a suggestion, seek help. Whatever the situation you, you cannot blame yourself for what happened. I understand how you feel but the sooner you seek help the better it will be. There are many rape victims out there and they will provide support to help you get through this. Also inform the authorities because it is a crime and they should be brought to justice.

1. Inform authorities- who else could it happen to. Get these guys locked up before more women go through this sh*t and then guys like me have to deal with p*ssed off women. Can I hear an AMEN coming from the guys?

2. It's not your fault, we all party in life once or twice. Think of it like this, you have to live with your mistake. I get to live with mine, I can't do anything without risk of paralyzing my entire body. I wrecked my car and it rolled 300 times... I can't remember if it was from a party, or who I met that night... all I remember is blips of the hospital and my neck cracking every time I turn my head. Which is why I have a desk job until it heals =( ... as you see, we all make things we regret.

3. The being raped part I have no clue how you feel, but what I can tell you is this - those guys are low life scum that don't know who they are or where they are going in life. Talk it out of your head immediately.

4. You two aren't dating, so he doesn't need to know. In the event that you two get together in the future, he doesn't need to know then either. Your life is your life.

Best regards,
ArtistBBoy

I'm really sorry. Don't hate yourself, you didn't do anything wrong!

I was at a party a few years ago, it was my first time and I only had one drink. One of the guys must have slipped something in my drink. I remember passing out once and this guy left the room but I don't know anything else that happened after that. Then the next day I was hearing stuff like I had sex with him. I feel really terrible after that, I don't know if it was actually considered rape but I wasn't in my right mind and since I don't remember having sex with him IDk but you're not the only once this has happened to. If you can go to the authorities and tell them your story, you may be able to put a stop to them. Rapists usually don't have just one victim.

go get checked out and make sure you are not pregnant and they did not pass anything on to you. I feel you I've been there before. just talk to someone about it it can make you feel better. I know you are probably really sad right now and don't even want to think about it even though that's all you will think about. you are gonna start lookin at guys you don't know with hate for at least a few months. I was rapped by a black guy twice and this makes me hate all most all black guys still to this day. because every time I see one it reminds me of what they did to me and I wonder if they have ever done the same thing. even though I know that white guys have probably done it too. but I just can't help that every time I see a black guy how it reminds me of the f***ed up s**t that those two did to me. If your ex is really understanding and you know that you can talk to him about this without him freaking out then maybe he can help you get through this but if he does not understand it can just make you feel even worse. keep your head up and be careful.

that same exact thing happened to me a few months ago I know exactly how you feel. its like deja-vu really. the only part that is diffrent is when I found my wallet inside the coach they stole 200.00 of my rent money and they was acting like they did nothing wrong. I had no idea who they even was. I didn't know how my ex boyfriend would react because even though we were at the time just friends wiyh benefits I didn't think he would understand. I didn't want him to think that it was my falt for why it happened so I said nothing I am still scared to go out of town where I don't know as many people. He couldn't tell anything had happened. All I know is it made me love him so much more. I've been rapped twice and never told my man because I was just scared that he would just think that it was my fault. becuz if you think about it what if he came to you and was like I was drunk and rapped. it doesn't sound good at all. even though every time I woke up I was screaming and fighting I had no idea what was going on. it is really sad and it really makes me sick to my stomach that someone can do that.