I have never cheated and I will never because I would feel guilty for hurting my significant other as well as potentially hurting the other man involved, and I'd be upset about ruining what may have been a great relationship.
Everything about it. It's wrong, disgusting, and pathetic. It shows that a person isn't man or woman enough to tell the one they supposedly love how they feel, but cower and give in to their weakness and then hide behind their shame. They insult their s/o's intelligence by assuming that they are too stupid to find out what they've done. It causes pain, insecurity, doubt, and many other bad feelings. These feelings create scars that are easily opened and can ruin future relationships.
The whole fact that the trust and love are broken in the relationship.
My ex-boyfriend was chatting with his ex on-line (which I was fine with the the beginning) but when I went into his e-mail and found saved e-mailed from her with explicit e-mails and photos, in the end it all came down to "How could I ever trust him, again". I know you're thinking 'It's just e-mails and it's not like her actually slept with her' but he min as well have!
The worst part about cheating would probably be that you could loose your girlfriend/boyfriend. But if you really love your girlfriend/boyfriend then you wouldn't cheat on them.
...however hard you try you just don't get caught...couple it with a sweet face and saintly attitude nobody believes that you r trying to cheat on them.... ;-)
I can't say I've ever cheated on a girlfriend, but I imagine it works the same for an exam or something like it. It's the guilt of what's being done that gets to me. It sucks rocks.
1. Trust goes RIGHT out the window. . 2. Bitterness sets in for both of you. . . No good. 3. Odd relationship with any other person of other sex 4. Nasty weapon for your significant other to bring up later 5. Sometimes. . . A deal breaker. . . When she/he finds out that it's happened, that's it. They may never take you back, never look at you or talk to you again.
I hope that one night of fun, or several. . . Because it cost you this woman/man of your dreams.
What's even worse than that. . . If he/she does break up with you, then how do you explain this situation to the next person you date? How do you look in his/her eyes and tell them what you did? Or do you lie? Perhaps all your life. . . .
Why does cheating suck? Because not only does it kill what you had. . . But it creates issues with your next prospective lover. . . Like a black mark on your employment record. . . It effects the rest of your life. Not only that way. . . But yes. . . Mentally. Men don't believe it effects them. . . But it will ALWAYS come to bite you in the butt again.
Intense answer. I like it. is this coming from the cheater or the cheated on? I have a friend who has cheated and he married his wife because she was faithful. Now it seems paranoia has set in. He believes she might be cheating on him. Dane Cook does a stand up segment on cheaters. I suggest you go and watch it if you had not seen it. You can find it on youtube. type in dane cook cheater. I believe the video is called Dane Cook 7. Watch the entire clip. It's true. - 4 months ago
I love that segment! The creaking floor bit is hilarious! - 4 months ago
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Actually, I'm fortunate. I've not been cheated on, and I've never cheated. I guess it's acquired knowledge from observations of other relationships that had crashed and burned. None of it was such a happy moment in either of the people in the relationship's life, however, it did offer me the chance to learn from them, and not come close to making that mistake. . . Ever.
I'll check out that Dane Cook segment. . He has days where he's funny. Ha ha. - 4 months ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Well, I would think a light dinner somewhere would be awsome just to talk and to break the ice a little. Afterwards, go for a walk somewhere and let the questions get a little more personal. I would dress nice, but not formal and not casual. just a kiss on the cheek or something and a promise to call.
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