this guy is the biggest asshole to me. I hated him from the start but he always seems to do something new, something subtle and underhanded, it's almost like he doesn't know he's p*ssing me off.
but the thing is, he has to know. he is nice to everyone but me! every other girl loves him, guys always follow him around like some sort of god. there is no way he treats them like he does me!
everything he says to me has a "what's in it for me?" attitude to it, he mainly acts like he doesn't even know I exist, when once upon a time we were almost friends (though never really, I just kept telling him "truce. let's be friends")
he is barely even in my life and somehow he finds ways to p*ss me off! what is his deal?
I find great muse in actively being an asshole to some girls. It infuriates and intrigues them all at the same time. It makes them want to know why I treat them the way I treat them. Sometimes they might even begin to think THEY did something wrong. But they can't just directly ask about it. Because I might just tell them they're being delusional. I think I treat everyone the same. So they just become more perplexed. Look at your guy. He's kept you wondering, hasn't he?
He has kept me wondering. about where best to punch him when the time comes. he is so infuriating. but yea he is definitely all about that subtlety thing, it's like he doesn't have any conscious awareness that how he's acting is totally annoying.
but like I said. I know he does. because he's completely different with everyone else. like flirty and nice. - A month ago
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And yea almost friends. not really. around this time last year we used to go to the same parties. so we'd see each other pretty much every weekend. and we'd spend most of if not the entire night bantering back and forth. he'd say something cocky and arrogant, and I'd get annoyed.
i HIGHLY doubt he ever had a thing for me. he has so much charm, that he uses on other girls, that make them go crazy for him. if he wanted me to like him, wouldn't he be like that to me? - A month ago
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Charming to every girl on earth except for one?
Sounds like Hitch to me. - A month ago
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I've never seen it... But I refuse to believe that this asshole could have any type of pleasant feelings for me. I just don't understand... - A month ago
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Well they're not necessarily pleasant.
But they're not inadvertently resentful. - A month ago
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So he doesn't necessarily like me, but he doesn't hate me either? - A month ago
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Something like that.
The question at hand is that if he treated you like he did those other girls, would you fall for him? - A month ago
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Good point. No. I wouldn't have fallen for him - A month ago
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So then, recognizing that you would not have gone for his normal game, he'll have to get you more interested in him than you otherwise would have been. Even if all the interest isn't positive. He'll at least have your attention. He'll have to approach you in a way that he does not normally approach women in which he has interest.
And If it fails, no big loss because he would not have been able to capture your heart the conventional way either way. - A month ago
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Hmm I don't know maybe someone else will come in with another answer to help me out but I think maybe this guy likes you and is afraid of his feelings. When I was in school guys used to act like this to me sometimes and I didn't know why...Maybe he treats you like that because you're not like every other girl that loves him and follows him around. He probably feels entitled like he's some sort of god and when you don't kiss his behind he gets mad. Just ignore him
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