Yesterday I was talking to my boyfriend about how this other guy was being very disrespectful to me. Instead of getting some positive feedback he goes along with what the guy was saying. My boyfriend said that I should do what the guy asked me to do. He shrugs I don't know what you are thinking. And I am like I am telling you how I feel and how wrong it is. What I mean is this guy from Brazil whom I barely know asks me in front of everyone if I can fix his papers for him. I told him no. And he starting saying sh**t to my face. I got upset with my boyfriend. How can he clearly agree with this especially someone who is an a**! My boyfriend asked if I was drunk when I started going off on him. I said no and I am hurt by your thoughts and I hung up the phone.
Your boyfriend is an ass. If the two of you cannot come to a mutual decision of things, then you never will. Your boyfriend should be backing you in public but in private, that is when you need to have the discussions
You already know the answer..."I think I should leave him" Yes - sounds like it. When someone violates your moral code and is disrespectful to you - YOU should march your butt outta there and don't think about him for a minute. His priorities are clearly not matching yours. Not everyone we meet is a match. Most people we date we determine aren't for us - he's just one of many...so say "NEXT" and get on with your life.
Definitely. Your boyfriend was being a jerk. I wouldn't stick around, but I'd reconsider it if he apologizes very politely, and does something special to make it up to you. But if he doesn't, leave him. Dump his sorry a** for being a jerk.
He clearly is immature and has no respect for you. If his friend, or that 'other guy' wants you to do something that clearly isn't your business.. And your boyfriend goes along with it? That's not a good boyfriend. He's showing his feelings for you aren't that strong, or he would support you and beat up anyone who even treated you that way. Hope everything will turn out okay (:
Maybe he didn't understand the situation? Also, has this been a problem before? I wouldn't end a relationship over this situation. If you don't want to leave him yet, talk to him again. Let him know it bothered you, don't make it drawn out though. This is something that can be passed if handled right.
"He told me to marry the guy" there you go. there's your answer you should leave!
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What? Your boyfriend should defend you not a guy who was being disrespectful to you. I think you're right in wanting to leave him, cosigning on another man disrespecting you is just like your boyfriend disrespecting you and you don't deserve that.
HELL YEA LEAVE HIM! he does not deserve anyone for that matter if he's gonna treat people like crap like that. Find yourself a respectable man and be happy with someone who treats and respects you like a man should!
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