I don't really know anyone who is happy all the time, or funny all the time and I think that would get on my nerves after a while. I need some quiet time just to relax without having to be on top of things. To me I'd want someone who was easy to talk to and fun to be around, someone who makes me feel special.
Honesty, for either boyfriend or girlfriend also a sense or humor but can also be serious. You can be a bit wild some times *but not TOO wild* and the rest I guess depends on the person. Some guys only like girls with blonde hair. You know it all differs from person 2 person.
I have been with the same guy for 4 in a half years. He is the love of my life and so much more! Well, let me think back to what made me fall in love with him. Honesty, Sincerity, Trusting, Funny, Confident.
Well, I would want my guy to be confident, calm and relaxed. The idea of being calm and relax puts me at a pace where I can connect with him and that I can feel comfortable and easy around him. The confident part in my guy would be important because if he's confident, I am confident. I like guys who are so self assured that it inspires me into losing some of the insecurities I might have. Its just seems protective and manly-like.
A guy that can make me laugh and smile is very important because then he can keep me happy and my goofy personality will mesh well with his. Also if he can easily make me smile, then I can't stay mad at him and that's good for the both of us.
I like to be able to relax and be myself and want the other person to be able to be themselves as well. I don't like to talk all the time, and I don't want to feel obligated to have to be laughing all the time either. I am a pensive person, so I like to have my space sometimes and be able to think and ponder things. I don't like to always have to be thinking either. I like to just be able to be quiet around the person I'm with if I want to be!
I'd say calm and relaxed. If either you or your significant other do fall under the weather, hopefully you can help each other out of emotional slumps and provide support for each other. If you can do that, it seems like a relationship that has a lot of strength and character, one that hopefully will last for a long time.
I picked B because it shows that she doesn't rely on people to make her happy (a sign of independence) it also shows that she's confident and has a positive outlook in life. I believe that smiles are contagious and that it'll brighten up any cloudy days I might have. I would've picked See but I think her always smiling is better than her making me smile and I normally don't need people to make me smile because I normally do things that will bring a smile to my face already.
I picked c) if they can make you laugh, then it's hard to get upset at someone who is making you crack up with laughter, lol. But they also know how to keep things from getting boring or stagnant.
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