I take care of myself and I always try to look my best. I have a flat stomach but for a white girl I have a "big" butt and a semi-curvy chest. I'm really confident in myself and guys tell me that I have a lot of sex appeal and that it shows in the way I talk and the way I walk. But the thing is that I tend to think like a guy a lot. I like video games and I'd rather sit at home and watch a movie then go out somewhere nice for a date. I don't really pay attention to things that some girls do like anniversaries or if a guy wants to go out with his friends. Whenever I get approached by a guy and I start to like him something always happens. For the past couple of months every guy has either gone back to their ex or has found a new girl (in this case they tend to resemble me sometimes). At first when we're talking they always start off with the "I didn't think you'd even give me a chance" thing, so its not like I'm dating overly cocky guys. I'm not sure why, but does guys rather have a girl act like a "girl" ? Or do guys get intimidated by me?
You haven't been answering much lately, but I do remember a few of your answers. You do seem pretty down to earth and have a friendly personality, so I don't doubt what you've been saying. As for attraction, yes your very pretty. Sometimes it's a double edge sword, with you having both the good and bad. It does seem like everyone around you generalizes you based on your figure and your sex appeal. And some guys do feel intimidated because of that. So your choices of who to date are a little slim right now. Not too mention guys don't seem to want to date you cause of who you are, but rather to see if they can. If a guy says, "I never thought I had a chance", this usually might mean he's more into your looks and trying to cross a barrier than actually wanting to know more about the girl behind the "pretty face". Other times, they might be legit. You can only tell that by their actions and not words.
My advice is to not limit who you date to just guys who are either as confident as you, or as attractive as you. I'm not saying you have, but just in case. Go for friends first, or at least someone who knows the real you and not just your "shell". The last thing I would say is that you probably just have a bad string of luck. It happens, so don't fret over it. A down to earth girl whose as attractive as you is pretty amazing and rare these days, so you won't be on the market for long. Just give it time. And there's no need to rush either. Enjoy your last few years of high school, cause they are much more precious than a month in adulthood.
I'm guessing you take the dominant role when communicating with a dude.
If so, then if you're digging a guy that your talking to, then take control of the situation and YOU should ask him out or try get their digits and call them, so they get the point that you are interested.
Young guys are dumb (I was once young :( ) and easily intimidated by an attractive women.
They probably didn't like your personality... guys always go for looks first! and when you say the girls they found somewhat resemble you... THEY DONT! that's just in your head...
Well, maybe guys want a girl, not another guy friend with boobs. I'm not saying you should change the way you are, but for some men, especially younger men, there is an appeal to being the "man" in a relationship. These guys might want to take you out, treat you like a lady, feel their young manly chest fill with pride that they are behaving like their mama's taught them. Instead it's like hanging out with the boys ... except you got boobs. Don't fret - the older guys get the more they learn to appreciate the individuality of a woman. Being under 18 yourself, you're dealing with boys - they don't really know what they want emotionally so they have to go by their peers. Maybe to them, right now, they look for a girly-girl because they think that's how a woman is supposed to be. Give it some time, they'll come around.
I agree with Jarett, you're probably going through a bad luck spell with guys but times like these will make you appreciate a good guy when you find him.
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