I have known one of my good friends since my Senior year of High school and his Junior. The first time I saw him I was hooked and overtime we became VERY close. It started with him calling almost everyday ( even before & after he came from a party) and us hanging out which eventually led to us hooking up 3 times. I began to get attached (no surprise there) and out of fear of getting hurt I stepped away from him and our friendship , funny thing is I never forgot about him. Fast forward 4 years I'm now 22, and he's 21 we recently got back in contact , talking on the phone, texting, and making plans 2 grab a bite 2 eat. Its like nothing changed; but I have. I want more and I'm not saying I want a boyfriend/ want him to be my boyfriend I just don't want that attachment again, or do I? So the other day we were texting and he asked me if I ever thought what it was like 2 be with him, I was confused. I thought to myself I know what its like we hooked up 3 times. I talked 2 two close friends and they told me that they didn't think that's what he meant. But I don't know what he meant. When I asked him if he ever thought about what it was like with me he said ''yeah until you went MIA''. I'm confused about him I know things happen for a reason but I don't think this is love , more like lust, who knows I don't PLease help. ARe we both playing games? Is he? Should we stay friends? Are we both crazy?
Ok here's what I think. You probably have feelings for him whether you know for sure or not. Being a guy myself I think that he is taking advantage of you. He knows/thinks you like him. He figures "theres this chick that likes me from years ago, I can most likely lure her in close and fuck her, then forget bout her. " he thinks your an easy grab.
I think your right because we have hooked up in the past and he's use 2 getting what he wants from girls. Im not going to be that girl I have evolved Thank You - 9 months ago
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