Why does he want me to reply to him so bad??

Your reply: You shouldn't have believed her over me, but I can get over that. You can't expect me to be her friend after that, no matter how much easier it would make things, because no matter what she says she isn't interested in being a friend back. Deal with your girl and we'll talk later.

It seems perhaps a little crule not to reply, if you think that he is a bad person then this is fine. But surly if he appolagised senserily then he deserves a relpy, even to say you don't want to see him anymore. People make mistakes sometimes though.

I can't be too nice when I say this; he is sorry, but men are portective of our women, our wives to be, men lie, females lie, it happens and it won't change - you need to be strong. Not replaying or talking about it is childish. You need to show you aren't a girl, show your a owman and accept it, continue to be his friend, show him your strong not becasue the feminists say so, but becasue you ARE strong, and no one can take that strength away.

Don't be rude to him, becasue that is a childish way around what should be done and what is easiest. Lieing is the hardest part, you have to live with it your whole life.

I wish you luck and may the goddess guide you when in darkness. Do your best and no one can saying you didn't try and suceed :) Words hurt, but can bring love and kindness instead of pain.

It sounds like you're important to him and he doesn't want to lose you as a friend.

He is harassing you. Why are you bothered why he wants to harass you? Do you really want this person in your life? If he hasn't made it clear what his reasons are for contacting you this way, may I suggest you contact the police? He needs to deal with his issues, clearly you are too smart to deal with people like this.

Geez just call him already. Why do you have to wait for some on line crap. You are just playing games with him and yourself. If you don't want to be friends anymore and don't forgive him, tell him that. If you don't want to befriend the girl, tell him that too. Grow up already.

idk, seems to me lyk he lyks drama. Okay, he apologized and now he wants to go back to being friends lyk nothing ever happens. It doesn't work lyk that once a good friend take sides, they should know you by now. Things you would do and wouldn't do. Why be friends with her? Ba, it all sounds lyk a lot of drama lovin going around. I would let him know that you are over it and just leave it lyk that...friends come a dime a dozen but it doesn't mean they know how to be one too! Peace!