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Friends or more than Friends?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I asked this guy out about two months ago. He told me "Sorry, but I see us as friends. Maybe if we know each other more, we might be more." During the 2 months we went and did a lot of stuff together. But I'm confused now. For the past 2 or 3 weeks, he's been hugging as if we were together, kissing, etc. with me. But I thought he said he wanted us as friends? So whats going on? What do I do?

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jimper143 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
I don't know how to say this but he is probably doing this either to get laid (if that has happened) or he is scarred of getting into a relationship and then ruining what you have had and still have
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homer (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
Go with the flow, without falling too deep.. If he really wanted you or wants you still, he wouldnt have told you that he feels like friends with you.. So the feeling is clearly missing... As for now, he might be getting into the groove of a relationship, or might just be enjoying his time until the next stop... I would say enjoy while you can, but take your steps cautiously too..
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marisa (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
It sounds as if a lot has changed since you initially asked him out. I would ask him if his feelings have also changed now that he's gotten to know you. If they have not, enjoy the friendship and don't focus on more with him. If they have, then go with the flow from there. But clear it up first or it will continue to bother you and may jepordize your long-term friendship.
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barbabydoll69 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
It might not be a good idea to go with the flow. Then it will make you fall deeper and depper. Trust me, I have been there before. You really just need to be careful & probably even talk to him about it. Just ask if he sees your realtionship with him going even further.
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