Love after Lust...

When your attracted to looks its all lust but after dating for a while the lust fades and personality is what keeps the relationship alive then that leads to love.

I think it's not possible personally. I dated a girl for several years who said I was her first love. She is so immature still at 23, I really think it was just lust that she thought was love. My depression and personal anguish thanks lust for this.

I will explain to you from my understanding for what is LOVE and what is LUST. I believe love does not breed lust because love itself is pure. It is to share, to love, to care and to sacrifice; and when two people are madly in love, it does not called lust which to make it complete, it is love itself in the making love process; it means to share and to love.When two people in love, there is no word of lust in the bond of their relationship because if LUST, the other party will leave her/him after 'every FAKE love' done. He/she will hurt the other party and NO love but LUST. Love is to bind it together with every single act of love, lust is separation in every fake movement in ' raping/adultery'

There's this one episode of the Tyra Show that claimed lust actually does come first, and then love. I guess I can sort of see how that works. If you think about it, most people are actually attracted by one's physical appearance at first sight. It's a shallow type of attraction. They don't actually begin to fall in love with that person until they actually start to get to know them and what their personality is like. That's how I see it, anyways.