Whenever I make out with my new boyfriend, I'm always shaking, I get goosebumps when he touches me, my heart's pounding, and my stomach's churning. He's commented on the shaking, goosebumps, and heart rate and he seems to like the effect he has on me. Is this normal? Is it normal that I get this nervous and that he LIKES it?
That feeling of her being nervous is something I actually really enjoy. I wouldn't suggest that I fetishize it... It's just really a turn on if/when it happens.
If she's nervous she's anticipating something. If she's anticipating something we're up for a good time... even without sex. It's just a great feeling to be able to tease and titilate your partner.
Hmm . . . that leads me to a new question. If I wanted to catch him off guard with a little aggression, would he like that or is the nervousness part of my charm and I would just weird him out? - 24 days ago
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It varies.
There's no real way for me to predict how he would react to it.
It's really more about how you go about it as well. I'd say be more embracing as opposed to more aggressive. And see how he reacts to that idea. - 24 days ago
WHAT?!? This isn't what love is supposed to feel like, is it? I mean, sure, I think about him all the time and he's the only guy that's had this affect on me, but I was blaming all that on the fact that he was already my best friend so that adds pressure to the situation . . . - 25 days ago
It's crush and new, love when you actually hit that feels completely different. It's something that you can't miss and once you feel it nothing is the same again every relationship afterwards in in it's shadow till it surpasses it.
Feels more painful and gut wrenching in a happy/scary way. Atleast it did for me. Crushes are nervous, exciting and fun. Love is none of those feelings. - 10 days ago
I don't think its the nervousness itself that he likes. He likes the fact that he made you nervous. If I could make a girl nervous because she liked me then that would be pretty cool. It shows that you really like him a lot.
Lol shut up! I can't help it! He makes me so freaking nervous. I'm gonna be a disaster if we ever make our way to actual sex . . . Yikes lol. - 25 days ago
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Man I'm jealous. I only had 1 gurl that was like that for me. I hope my wife is like that. at least for the first year! that would be GREAT - 24 days ago
No. I've had a few boyfriends before and he hasn't been the first to touch me like he does. For some reason I get really nervous when he does it though. - 2 days ago
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Lol that's cute, mayby that's because you really like him . - 2 days ago
i know how you feel, my boyfriend ( my 1st bf) laughed at the fact when I was WAY to shy to kiss him lol I was so nervous, I was like omG me you can do this and was saying or gonna give me that kiss you promised while smiling at me and I'm like um...so gave it to him and we kissed only 3 times and it was quick kisses, you know a peck on the lips lol he asked me if I wanted to kiss him and I said yeah,im just very shy
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