I too think that you should try talking to people. A simple "Hello." can go a looong way with a lot of people. If you have tried this and it doesn't seem to be helping, I would try changing up the enviroment around you a little and the people you interact with. I know personally that this can help a lot. In march, I was severly depressed and on antidepressants. I was so unhappy with the people around me and my "friends". I ended up just dropping out of my highschool for 4 weeks then finally looking for a new school. I ended up going to a small school about 5 miles away from my house and it has been lifechanging. It is a completely different and unique atmosphere and I have found myself a true best friend and a lot of other very good friends. The first few days there were kind of tough, but in the long run I am so proud of myself that I did. I would be a hot mess right now if I hadn't had the courage to go somewhere new and unfamiliar and just be myself and hope people like it. I think it would be very good for you to do the same. Not schools necessarily.. just.. atmosphere :) goodluck. Casey
People don't hate you.And the ones that you think hate you without even knowing you to begin with aren't even worth befriending in the first place.To be honest, friends come and go but its hard to find true friends nowadys so most people have thier guard up. Just try talking to a couple of people a day,whether it just be saying"good morning" or "how are you" do that every day and with all that practice, the conversation starters will help you have a deep and meaningful conversation. Once you start conversing with different people they will know what your all about.I know its hard, but trust me things will get better. God bless you hunnie. With much love.Deanna xoxoxoxox
sexcichick is right, unfortunately these days its very hard to find true friends.. everyone is out to get what they can for themselves, they want to be heard and cared for but no one ever gives back, no one wants to listen.
I am incredibly open, I get along with pretty much everyone and everyone always remarks how easy I am to get on with and how much fun I can be. But even surrounded by big groups I feel completely alone. It's just one of those things, try to learn to be happy by yourself... focus on goals and things you want to achieve.
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