I'm not too shy,but the real problem is I'm too afraid of rejection.i never have the gut to approach a guy,and even when I add some friends on the internet, I'll get really upset if they deny my friend requests.(do people get upset by this? I think most of people don't care?) and it feels they don't like me or I'm inferior or something... so my friends keep saying every one even super models get rejections but I'm still like if only one guy out of ten turns me down I'll have a sad mood all day..so now I feel like sh*t and don't have confidence. I should just let go? but I cant..how?
Update: i guess I'm just wondering if I should do something to improve myself or it;s totally a personal preference .different people act differently towards different person..and I need not to do anything about it.
24 days ago
I'd reject Megan Fox if she hit on me lol. Does that make you feel any better? haha
and no I'm not gay, I just don't find her attractive in the slightest, there are a million better looking girls than her!
To the QA, do you find your levels of joy skyrocket if you're close to someone or if someone praises you or acts warmly towards you? Like the total opposite of if someone says one little bad thing you get sad for the whole day?
First off, don't think your weird for fearing rejection, it sucks, plain and simple.
It may seem like it doesn't effect people, but it does. Some people just express themselves differently or are emotionally inept...or they didn't really care to begin with.
Rejection is just part of growing up,everyone gets rejected... you'll get over it, trust me
I was just recently rejected, yes it sucks, I cared, so it sucks a little more. However, I'll get over it, or at least learn do deal with it.
You just need to realize that it's their loss, that you had the courage to care and they didn't.
Just go for it, it will only add to your emotional intelligence and you'll learn how strong you really are ;)
But if you get rejections every now and then how can you still convince yourself "it's their loss?" - 24 days ago
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If you are inclined to offer yourself to somebody, you must feel that you have something they need or want, and if they didn't notice that, then it's they're loss, not yours. Because you're still you after being rejected, nothing more and nothing less. Just because feelings aren't reciprocated doesn't mean that you shouldn't feel. At least you have that intangible and you'll end up with the right person in the end. - 24 days ago
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