This guy and me talk from time to time I really like him but he makes it seem like when he has no other chick to talk to at the time he comes back I know what most might say forget him but I do like and I know he does have something for me or else he wouldn't of have looked for me my question is how do I make it seem like he doesn't have me so secure when ever he does text or write me? Please help me.
Don't waste your time or energy worrying about a guy who won't actively pursue you. Now, if/when he does, definitely respond appropriately (reject or accept clearly), but make him make any definite first moves.
The bottom line is this. You don't want a guy who only marginally wants you. Wait for the guy who will truly lead and serve you, and will honor, respect, and cherish you. It may take a while, but it'll definitely be worth the wait.
You have far too much life ahead of you to waste any memories, time, or affections on a guy who may just be bored.
Nate Johnson is completely right, you really don't want a guy like this but I'm not going to tell you that you don't want him because you do. It's not that he's a bad guy or anything, but you have to make him realize just how precious you are to him. Well how do I do that Suave Man, you ask? The only way to realize how special something is, is you have to lose it. So don't text him back, be unavailable when he's available. Do this 24/7 and he should come to his senses. He'll be hunting you down like a deer in the woods. Girls that he was previously interested in will hold out their hands to him and he will walk right past them in order to get to you. This plan will work if you really mean that much to him. If not, then he really didn't give a damn about you. But we'll reserve these results until the end. Be completely unavailable to him, completely available to other guys (make him jealous as hell so he thinks, "oh she has time for him but no time for me") and then he should go out of his way to make you available. Or not. We'll just have to see. But by then. You'll know.
Suave-Man thanks for the advice I been taken it well lets call him See I saw him so many time day it wasn't even funny we saw each other and nothing neither of us said a word but he's seen me with other guys and I found out he's going with a Senior girl but I know the only reason he's with her its because she's easy but whatever it won't last long so how you think things are sounding between us we don't talk but I can tell by the way he looks at me that something is there I mean who comes over at midnight - 8 months ago
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Haha well when you see him (while you're walking) just glance over at him then keep looking forward. You have to make him execute the first move. Don't worry about that senior girl, just look fine as hell while you walk by like you don't even care about him. - 8 months ago
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Na I'm not even tripping over her old parrot nose lol but no lie I know its not so much her good looks he's after,but okay I won't tell him nothing no matter how much its killing me lol - 8 months ago
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