I told the guy that I like that I liked him and this was a few weeks ago. The reason why I told was obviously because I like him, but also because I got tired of thinking if he feels the same way back. Plus, I was getting these flirty/I like you vibes from him so I took a shot and told him how I felt. It went something like this: Me: I like you. Etc, etc. If you don't feel the same way then if it's not too awkward, then can we still be friends? Him: no, it wouldn't be awkward to be friends (we talked a little afterwards. ) Me: so. To make things clear, you were rejecting me, rite? Him: no, it wasn't really a rejection Me: then. What is it? Him: idk, not saying we're boyfriend and gf, but anything can happen -- After this convo, I said to myself "ok, so he just wants to be friends" But my friends (girls, mostly guys) say that this is a good thing. Nothing has happen. He hasn't done anything. So should I just move on?
I agree with Suave-Man. He is willing to go out with you but he is not feeling you all that much. When a man is really feeling you he will pursue with passion, especially if you expressed you liked him. The guy is not that in to you. I suggest you move on.
Ya. thats probably what I'm gonna end up doing since 1 of my friends is kinda involved in this she wants me to go with this jr at school i think he's great. as a friend (but he's cute lol) but I don't really see us going out or anything and plus im pretty sure he only sees me as a friend - 9 months ago
If he said anything can happen, then he's up for it. I think that he's willing to go out with you, but if he doesn't have that firey passion to pursue you, then he really doesn't like you that much. See, when a guy likes a girl, we get this hunger inside, the hunger that says,"I must eat, I must feast and devour her. Now! " That's "the passion" that goes into it. So, if the drive isn't there, then it just isn't there, and you gotta move on.
Alright then thats gonna be tough. i really like him but if he doesn't have that passion. then I gotta do what I gotta do =/ but was it smart even tellin him I liked him in the first place? - 9 months ago
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There's nothing wrong with it, but if I were you I'd ignore him and act like you really don't care about him. That way, he'll be expecting you to stare at him and he might get a little worried if he thinks you don't like him anymore. - 9 months ago
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Are guys really like that? lol I've been kind of doing that but I didn't do it on purpose hm. now I can actually ignore him w/o it being an accident XD thanks for the advice - 9 months ago
Definitely not! He probably was overwhelmed with what you told him, because he probably felt the same so he was like whoa, I actually have a chance, take it slow and see what happens if he starts ignoring you then yea let him go, but go for it!
Theres 2 things you could say to this. You could be optimistic and say that he wants something to happen. Optimism isn't a bad thing trust me it could happen definitely. Nothing's impossible. Or you go and say no he does like I'm gonna move on. After a couple more weeks I would loose hope in the optimism because if he hasn't made any contact with then he probably isn't into you right now. I hope this helps. =]
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