What should I do? Hang out today?

It's hard to say what is going on with her. It could be that she is having a bad weekend, or maybe she has bad social skills and decided to do something else without telling you, or maybe she's mad at you for some reason.

Whatever the case, I wouldn't worry if I were you. It sounds like you are a pretty normal guy and you have everything right so far. You invited her well in advance to do something with you and you then called to confirm your plans. Once you do that, it is her responsibility to call you back.

She is being very rude because she knows you are waiting around for her. You could be doing something much more interesting than wondering where she is.

If I were you, I would try to have fun for the rest of the day and forget about her. If she later tells you that she got abducted by aliens or was at the emergency room, then make plans to go golfing another time. Otherwise, go and find a girl with better social skills who cares about you enough not to stand you up. Good luck!

That's terrible, I'm sorry...
I think you should let her contact you so you don't seem overwhelming... But I also think that she could possibly have an explanation maybe, so before you get all p*ssed and down and stuff I think you should talk to her, clear the air, ya know(:

You've tried contacting her a few times and if she doesn't reply there may be a few different reasons for this.

1 - from what you have said - she seems to be busy "she told me that she was going to go trick or treating" etc. so she may not hear her phone/not on her etc.

2- her phone may not be with her - sometimes I forget to bring my phone along or I'm somewhere else in the house and my phone is in my room and I don't hear it. and when I do see it sometimes the time to call isn't appropriate - aka I'm busy or the time is late.

3 - she just might not be one of those girls that call back (I know lots of girls/guys that don't tend to call back - and it's frustrating but you get that!)

so all I can say is, seeing as you've tried about 3 times - don't try anymore, don't text, don't call. if she doesn't reply to any form of communication she probably isn't thinking of looking to hang out with you. if she was - she would have at least texted you back!

Wait, 12:30, 12:00, and 4:00 AM? Why would you try contacting her in the middle of the night? That's stupid. She was probably asleep. If she woke up, and got your messages, she might have been bothered by the fact that you kept trying to call her in the middle of the f***ing night, but if I were you I would try calling her at a saner time, later today.

This is my advice, don't take it the wrong way at all..

the ship of not looking desperate has sailed a long time ago...

Okay firstly,who plans to "hang out" 2 WEEKS in advance... what that signals is you're desperate. Let me guess, when you planned, she didn't have a "free" day to hang out.. I'm sure you did.

You call on Friday, to confirm, okay... The best thing you did so far was to HANG-UP whilst you were on hold... You see how she responded to that, meaning you have to treat yourself with respect.
Then you ranG her again, at 1230am, come on.. why ring at 1230 on a fRIDAY.. it means you got nothing to do on a FRIDAY, basically not a good look.

Then at 12PM.. you draw your own conclusion what that signals...
Then at 4PM... enough said..
Then a text! ... basically being a puppy dog, "ur voicemail cracks me up.." to a person that treated you like sh*t...GROW SOME BALLS.
I bet you didn't hang out.
Forget that girl because you messed it up yourself, and move on and learn from this.. REMEMBER she only responded when you did something to respect yourself, believe me she knew your were on the line.
Mate you need to respect YOURSELF, and not tolerate sh*t like that from anyone... Then people will respect you, regardless.