Me and my two friends in college always kicked it just as friends. We've all seen each other in our pajamas and sweats from the gym - basically just always keeping it real as friends. We were always friends until one of them started to stick out to me. Before spring break we became a bit friendlier and when we went off for a weeks break, I live 3,000 miles away from my school and randomly this kid sent me a text message of the beaches at his home knowing that I love the beach and surfing. We exchange some texts here and there and 2 days before we all headed back to school he sent me a text message saying he got me a present so I only felt it was right to get him something in return. Well when we returned to school he gave me this matching bracelet that he has and tied it on and told me how the guy who sold it to him asked all these questions about me if he liked me and whatnot. Later on I gave him his present and he loved it and we both agreed to kick it later. Well I wound up kicking it with his other roommate and he even told me how the man asked the kid all these questions about me if he liked me and whatnot and both of them didn't say yes or no when they told me about this.
The next day me and the kid just chilled and it was sweet. This kid has the reputation of being such a slut on campus and just a player but when we chilled and whenever we'd talk they're would be none of that. Just down to earth kickin it like we always had done in the past now it was just 1 on 1. We bonded and got to know each other better by talking & we even took a trip down to the union together and he bought me some goodies. I'm huge on the little things so little gestures like that go a long way with me. But we kept it cool and it was chill and before I left he was in his pj's ready to go to bed when he got up out of bed and walked me to the door and hugged me goodbye. The next day we kicked it again and it was just chill. Me and 4 guys just chillin listening to some good music but then again nothing happened between us.
Then the games began: he would call/text me saying to come kick it and he'd say I'll hit you up but would never follow through. Then one day when I was on my way back to campus he called me and asked if I wanted to come skate with him. I texted him later and said I was too tired but suggested a movie. He never returned my text or called. The next day I was outside doing work when he came to me and asked what I was doing and I called him out on his behavior and he said he would make it up to me nd he did. Me him and his other friends just kicked it and it was fun. He was a bit more flirtatious this time and we wound up having a movie night together in my dorm room. We were talking more and getting to know each other more but we didn't have sex. We made out and cuddled but that was it. In the morning I was half asleep and woke up to him putting my quilt on me and tucking me in. He whispered in my ear goodbye, hugged me and kissed me. Said he'd call but nada.
He said he'd call, but didn't. And then he said he'd call but didn't. And then he hung out with you and made out. Then said he'd call, but didn't. Those aren't good odds. Acting like a jerk three times per every time that he actually came over (and even then, it was still serving his needs by making out). Especially with his reputation as a player, I'd say he's bad news.
He sounds like a jerk that wants to see how far he can string you along. If you don't want to look like the stupid girl that got played, forget him. Maybe you two are just better off being friends, but even friends that blow you off aren't very good ones.
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