Do they think they're just too good for girls or what? They talk to you when THEY are ready, when they're in a good mood YOU should be in a good mood, and god forbid you ask them why they act the way they do cause if you do that, you'll either get ignored or it starts a fight.
When we men act like we're too good for you, it makes your question your value. It takes you down off your pedestal.
I'd rather a girl think of me as someone who thinks that they're better than her than as someone who they can condescend to or look down upon.
And there's nothing quite like a girl fighting to prove her worth to me. This becomes a pursuit to her. I've got her right where I want her at that point. She's at my will. I'm not at hers.
Wow. I hope you wouldn't treat a girl who doesn't put herself on a pedestal the same way. - 19 days ago
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No, the way I treat a girl is relative to the way she treats me.
For instance, if a girl thinks really lowly of herself, well then I've got some building work to do in order to bring her out of the ditch she puts herself in and put her on ground level.
But if a girl is conceited and does put herself on a pedestal, I'll have to knock her off it and put her on ground level.
If a girl is already on ground level with me, she's right where I want her to be by her own will. - 19 days ago
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Let me turn this question around. Why are girls these days so shallow? I mean if you don't look like you walked out of a Hollister catalog, you don't even get noticed. I've never thought I was too good for a girl, or above them.. or anything lke that! I enjoy sharing a good mood with my partner, and helping resolve why they wouldn't be in a good mood :)
To answer your question, guys do this because they can get away with it.
By the way you have worded things here, it makes me question your maturity. To be more successful in the dating field, try not to be so explosive. You want to be outgoing, by passive. If something doesn't go your way - whatever, it didn't matter to begin with. It just would have been nice to have it your way similar to a "benefit"
I don't think that's specific to guys, girls do it to me. I'm definately not too good for any girl, but yeah a lot of guys are jerks and think girls are just happy to have them (as if) its annoys me because the guys who do it, get girls I'd want to marry lol.
Haha that's true. A lot of girls go for guys like that, they want the "bad boy" the one who argues with them. You know why? Its excitement. The relationship never gets boring lol, but it does cause problems. Girls hardly go for the nice guy, cause that gets old and girls want a challenge. Idk...im a chick and I don't even know why we do the things we do. - 20 days ago
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Yes I hate that :P I'm one of the nice ones, I think. lol But I'm not the sort of person to get myself into trouble, And I can't do anything mean to anyone I like, I'd worry id lose them if I did :( Also its not the right thing to do. lol Yes girls are a confusing bunch :P I think guys are so simple to work out, almost of them go on looks, those that don't can usually be affected by looks anyway, the attitude thing, is usually because they think they are being cool and masculine, real mature :P - 20 days ago
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Yeah this guy I'm talking to right now I think is way to into himself...he thinks things should always go his way and girls should just throw themselves at him, and when I don't do it, he wonders why. - 20 days ago
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I hate people like that, I'm the opposite, I hate how I look and my general personality lol, not like anyone can be the definition of perfect... still I know some girls who I'd say are pretty damn close :P - 20 days ago
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