So, this guy and I have been friends since the beginning of high school. He’s my brother’s best friend (though he’s my age) and a really close friend of the family. Recently things have been getting a lot flirtier than they have been, and recently he’s started touching my on the shoulder when we are talking and giving me “that” look...which is what sparked my old crush for him back into life. Anyway he’s done a few huge favors for me – like driving me to my grandmothers (I visit her before going to uni...but my car broke down so he gave me a lift), getting me a job at the place he works...etc. etc.
Anyway, last week, we meet up after our classes (like we do ever week) and usually hang out for an hour or so before heading home. However, he got all nervous, his shaky and everything when he asked if I wanted to go to the mall with him and help him get a new pair of jeans and his halloween costume. I said yes, and he immediately brightened up. We went to the mall and it was all very playful and flirty. He found a rouge balloon and chased me around...bopping me on the head. He made a complete foul of himself when he walked into an art shop and went straight up to a woman who worked there and says “Hi, my body is a canvas, and I’d like to mold it into a mummy.” It was pretty funny...and yes...every time he did something ridiculous he’d check to make sure I was looking. He’d also lead me around, by pushing me in the right direction with his hand on the small of my back.
I also pretty sure its a good sign that he’s into me...if every shop assistant assumed we were going out/ going steady. Anyway, he got dinner (I already ate) and we went to his car where he sat and ate...while I talked to him, leaning against his car. I only just realised that perhaps...this was because we wanted it to be just him and me, away from other people. (I could be reading to much into it though.) So we talked about what I wanted to do with my life while he sat there commenting with nods...and looking like he was thinking really intensely/deeply. (Which is what I’m wondering...what on earth was he thinking so intensely about? I couldn’t get a read on him.)
Anyway...after he finished his food he gets out of his car...stands up...really really close to me and puts the lid on the container before throwing it in the car and looking directly at me. Seriously, my heart was racing a million miles an hour, I was so sure he was going to kiss me...he leaned towards me, then at the last second pulled away and ended up just grabbing my upper arm and squeezing it...before getting in his car...checking I got in my...then driving off.
Help Please...is he into as more than just friends?
Its a FACT...he does "feel" something for you ;-) I'm a GUY I know LoL
im the SAME way with "one" of my ladie friends ;-) its "basicly" the same story between her and I LoL she is my friend's sister from highschool and because of that...i kinda KEPT my distance from her LoL not to meantion we didn't get "along" to well ether at first LoL but as time pasted... OUR friendship began to grow STRONGER as we became closer over time. Which is going on like 10+ years now ;-)
The "problem" that I find HARD is the "crossing over" process...
I would say...he is SHOWING a lot of "intrest" in you thous far...in truth its HARD work for a guy to "impress" a ladie he likes sometimes...which is WHY I use the "same" technique he used to get ur attaction ;-) and that is ASK for ur "opinion/help" with something...example~ asking you to take him to the mall for help with his costume & jeans (something he "could" do by himself)...was a MAJOR step for him ;-) its HIS way of showing "indirectly" that he wanted to spend time with you ;-) And that's WHY he was "fearful" of ur asnwer being NO...but you "seen" his reaction when you said YES ;-)
Just as he...i would do the SAME thing...use the Mall as his play ground to get ur "attaction" and make you laugh...to TRY and make a "impression" on you ;-) for what's the BEST way to get a girl ? that is to "make her laugh" aways works ;-) even IF you have to make yourself the fool to do it...thats WHY he "kept" looking back and making SURE you were nearby, to get ur "approvel" to see IF you thought he was funny LoL I gotta say...that "Hi, my body is a canvas" qoute was creative LoL I'm "stealing" that for the next time I enter a clothing store ;-) LoL
As for the food thing...since you didn't "have" anything...there wouldn't be to much of a reason to grab a table in the food court area just for him...if it was bugers and fries LoL we GUYS can eat anywhere LoL so I can "see" his reason WHY to take it outside...beside...
He is definitely into you! First reason why I know that, is because he pays attention to what you're doing. Us girls, well me at least, do the same thing when we're interested and/or like a guy. We look at them, we make jokes, we're nervous at times, and we want to be alone with them while eating (for some reason) LOL. Guys and girls aren't as different as they're made out to be. He is way into you MORE THAN FRIENDS! And I think if you want to be 'more than friends' with him, you should signal that you feel the same way. But don't try to hard at first. Start gradually with your flirtatiousness and then...gradually get more intense. I personally think that if the mood was right when he was looking at you, you should have kissed him. Guys don't always have to make the moves ;)
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