When I like a guy. I try to make light of the conversation. I will talk about the stupid little things at first. Like funny things that happened to me as a kid or something. Just random stuff. But it usually leads to something a little more serious. I try not to get to personal. I mean if he wants to tell me personal things great, but I'm not going to come out and ask about his past, like past girls, etc. But I will ask just little things. Like if he tells me about the recent time he did something (paintballing, snowboarding, etc. ) I will ask if he does it alot, just to find out some more things baout it, generally if I start to like a guy I want to know more about him so I can find out for sure if I'm actually into him. But talking about myself is good too because he can find out if we are compatible, which is a good thing, because if I like a guy I want him to like me back! So generally its a back and forth thing. I don't think one person leads the conversation! I mean if both people can't keep the convo going the relationship won't last!
I would say the guy generally leads the conversation, but I would like for it to be as equal as possible. I would want the guy to learn just as much about me as I would want to know about him.
Don't get me wrong, I could talk about myself for a while :-) but I would still be asking questions to the guy. Hopefully, it would all even out.
Well, if I'm talking to a guy I like, I usually let him lead the conversation, given that he's comfortable doing it. I like finding more out about him before I tell him everything about myself. Plus, most guys I know like it when girls seem interested in their thoughts. I guess it makes me seem interested in them, which is the idea. haha.
Well when I talk to a guy I like, usually it's a balance of the two. Sometimes I'll say something like " I hate reading " just to see if he feels the same. Or I'll be like " you like to play the saxophone right? " kewl that's awesome.
Well, it pretty much depends on the kind of girl. Whenever I'm around the guy I like, I generally try to get him to talk more about himself, but that's just me. It also kind of depends on the girl's mood. It just depends really. It's better though to kind of balance the two. Hope this helped a little! =]
I understand that its best when there's a balance, I was just asking which a girl would *more likely* do. But yeah, you still helped, so thanks! - 9 months ago
It depends on the girl. Usually people should balance out the two, so the focus isn't completely on one person. If a girl only talks about herself, then she's not really caring about you at the moment.
As in how? There's a lot there to pick *cough* (yes I am joking =) But I mean what sort of questions would she be likely to ask? - 9 months ago
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Ok. She might ask about your general background - what's your family like, friends group, hobbies what you do on weekends and your preferences and dislikes etc. She won't ask "What is ___? " for every question, but through chatting she will try to find these things out. And then more importantly through flirting etc she will try and find out your attitude toward things and people. She will also reveal her own attitudes and preferences and afterwards she will know how much she likes you :) - 9 months ago
Well if she likes you she'll ask more about you attempting to figure you out. It also depends on her personality: Whether she's shy, spontaneous. Etc. If she's shy she'll let you do all the talking and ask a few things that she might want to know or to keep you talking to her. If she spontaneous she won't probably ask you directly and you probably won't really know if she's serious or not. Maybe she'll talk more about herself to lure you in and make you interested in her. Hope that helps
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