My girl can't shut. Err not constantly ask? 's/ blabber when were watching a flick. Even chick movies. I actually have come to the point where I watch the movie 1st (unknown to her) before I watch it with her so I can enjoy it. Is it an attention issue or what? She's highly educated and it even happens with movies she picks so I'm not buying that were watching crap she's not interested in. I f***ing sat through Enchanted and she still managed to drive me insane. Am I with a crazy or is this typical female? I think it's an attention issue.
I'm a female and I HATE when people talk through movies but maybe that's because I actually WANT to watch it. Is it possible she's the kind of girl that just likes to have a movie on for background sound and could really care less about what's going on in the story?
I would politely say to her the next time, "that sounds very interesting baby...let's talk about it after the movie...and give her a little smoochie with it." if she's respectful of what you want/need, she'll keep the chatter to a minimum. if not, she may be an attention hound or just SUPER chatty and not very considerate. good luck with that :)
That beyond screams attention issue I'm sorry you watched Enchanted I practically pulled my hair out in that movie lol i would stop watching movies with this girl
I have an ex that would do that. It's an attention thing and to get her to stop, I suggest not watching movies with her anymore. She'll eventually bring it up and ask why you two don't watch movies anymore, and then you can tell her that she talks too much during them and you can't concentrate on the movie with her there.
To answer your question though, it is possible to watch a movie with a girl that doesn't blab her mouth the whole time, it's just a matter of finding that girl. I don't think she's crazy or typical, maybe she doesn't know that it bothers you. Communication is key to maintaining sanity in any relationship.
Attention issue is probably right. A second reason is she's educated so highly stimulated by the content of the movie. She feels like a reviewer of it as she watches. What she needs to know is respect for other people who want to actually hear the dialog of the movie! Tell her that :)
Haha this sounds familiar. I had this problem except it was with my ex. So I don't think it's just girls. Guys can do it too. But I think he's was kind of a pansy so, it is pretty girly. Some people just are talkers during movies, some aren't. She probably just can't contain her opinions and feels the need to express herself to you any moment possible. She's not crazy, but I agree with the attention issue. Girls are irritating and I know it cause I am one. If I were dating a woman I'd be nuts sometimes too.
Definitely an attention issue! I cannot watch a movie with my girl. She is exactly the same way. I don't think it's a female issue. I think some girls can actually do things with guys and both parties can enjoy it. That's why my girl and I have a rocky relationship right now. She is high maintenance and she's always looking for attention. Anytime, I get into something, she is right there trying to carry on a conversation about something that has nothing to do with what I'm doing. If I had known that she was so insecure about herself, I probably wouldn't have dated her, but but but. Yeah!
That's why I date European women; I just tell them how I feel about a situation, and they don't get hurt or offended by my comments. Matter of fact, I dated a girl like that who would talk at t movies, and I just simply told her. Look, I know you got lots of comments, but if you can save them for after the movie, me and those around me, would really appreciate it. She never talked after that, but she did say I was no fun at the movies. :)
Dude if I really ever wanted to watch a movie, I'd watch it by myself. When you hangout with chicks you're not going to concentrate on the movie that well as if you were watching it with guys. I'd be paying more attention to that you're girl you're with instead of trying to watch the movie. But if she asks questions throughout the whole thing I can see how that could be annoying. Maybe she feels shy around you and she likes you a lot so she's just a little insecure and asks lots of questions. You know how when you were younger and you saw a girl around that you were interested in and you felt the need to impress her? You'd talk more and try to look cooler so that she notices you right and like you? That sounds like what she's doing. Whenever a person talks too much that's a sign that they're out of their comfort zone. They don't want you to know that so they try to overcompensate by talking a lot. She ultimately wants your attention, so give it to her.
we are completely opposites on EVERYTHING, she likes Death Cab for Cutie and The Jonas brothers and such while I like Jimi Hendrix, Incubus, basically...
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