I have, but rather than killing myself, I make other peoples' lives miserable because I want them to feel what I feel. I hate myself to the point I really have no love for others. I can't empathize with other people. I don't really deserve any kind of love. I know some of you here love to pamper other people with comments, but to me, it just isn't going to work, because it's nothing more than just a lie.
I really hate 99.999999999999% of the people in this world, because they are all full of sh*t.
I'd rather if people would rather tell me the goddamn f***ing truth rather than just white lies to make people feel better. Actually, I feel more at peace by being told the harsh, cold reality rather than someone telling me white lies, because lies hurt more than the damn truth.
truth? I don't believe that you will believe other pplease' sayings are the truth.they are white lies.. what are you doing here? asking for advise? but you hate us. you think we are bullsh*t. stop whining ,get a job,get a promotion,get more money.everyone loves money I bet you do too.if you say no then ur a liar.unless you like the feeling of cold and starving and dirty and smelly. and you know what,making money can help ur country to increase GDP and then you are qualified to kill yourself.
Loll the last sentence in the kicker =) - 15 days ago
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Make your life meaningful-what do YOU want to do with it?There's no point trying to ruin other peoples lives because guess what they don't care about you and will get on with their lives. Yep, they'll be moving on whilst you're still stuck with being angry and bitter. You just HAVE to let it go. Accept the hurt and pain and let it go. Move on. Or else you'll be left behind in the gutter.
Have you not heard of the phrase "what goes around comes around" and karma (same thing only used in Buddhism). If you treat other people badly, then other people will treat you badly. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I know this has already been covered but the mistake most people make is they think they are so important whereas actually you're only human, one of many, in the world. I don't know if you are religious/spiritual but I think it could help you. I know that I'm human-I have strengths and weaknesses like everything else but there are just some things I cannot control. You have to accept the things you can't control and just deal with what you can control. Take the weather for example. Do you think you can just say "oh make it sunny today" just because you want it? No. Same with people. People are who they are and you can't change them. Like the weather, you have to say "oh ok this is what I have so I'll work it to the best of my ability". Whether you believe in God or not, there is someone/something controlling so many things outside human control eg the weather,death. You don't even have to think its God but accept its not you controlling it.
Look depression is really common actually. You need to check out www.studentdepression.org. Its got really good advice for dealing with depression and suicidal thoughts.
You're obviously feeling a lot of anger and lack of trust in people. Also lack of self-esteem and alienation. But a lot of these are just feelings that you can work on. You really need to talk to a therapist. I've done therapy so its not weird etc. You're obviously very angry but you need to deal with it now rather than go through your whole life with this burden.
I would say someone/some people have hurt you in the past but that's no reason to commit suicide. Its also hard to relate to people if you're trying to make them miserable as they would then turn against you. So you're in a bit of a vicious circle here. First of all, you have to start cutting people some slack. I don't care if you trust them or not but treat them respect and friendliness and within a short time, you will start to get on with people better. There are so many people full of sh*t but you just have to accept it and try to get the best out of people. Most people aren't going to tell you the truth because they don't want confrontation/to hurt your feelings. Only a true friend or family friend will tell you the truth really. So you do need to work on your relationships to get more of the truth.
Um honestly, you sound like you have psychopathic tendencies. It's not even worth typing a long comment to try to help understand what's wrong with the things you are doing, because you are way past the point of any of us being able to help out. Go get some psychological help asap.
Thank you.. that's why I tried to keep my comment as short as possible without wasting MY time on this fooll.. there's no need for explanations to this guy.. plain and simple.. he needs to get professional help. - 16 days ago
That boy is right. and killing yourself is a cowards way out. Its a selfish horrible thing to do and you leave a lot of pain behind with you. You want to hurt people? then go right ahead and do it. But that's just proving your weak. The real truth is that like the girl said.. you are INSIGNIFICANT. So am I, so is everyone. If you really think about it what are we? We are nothing on our own. But together as an entire world full of people, we are something.
I think the biggest problem in the world, which causes all the complicalities, which causes all the hurt and is the root of everything, is emotions. You say you really just don't care, which is implying you have no emotion, But you do, you have all this negative emotion making you feel this way. You have hate and anger and you just are plain LAZY. you can't be bothered to care, its not that you dont.
Its true most people on this website give POSOTIVE feedback, try and make people feel better about themselfs, but this doesn't mean we are all liars. I don't know you, I will never meet you, I have no reason to lie to you or to make you feel better because at the end of the day like you said yourself - Why should I care I'm just full of sh*t.
I agree, lies hurt more than the truth, and I think you should consider going onto anti depressants, these are all the feelings and signs of someone who is depressed. Find out what it is in your life that makes you feel like this, Work, Money, Family, Relationships, Home? Maybe its all of them, then work towards changing them. If you must move house, move out of town make a completly fresh start. At least that would be productive, instead of sitting around feeling sorry for yourself.
We have to value our own lives, because like you said, nobody else cares. When you die the sad truth is we will all eventually be forgotton, 99% of us won't make a dent in the world, something to be remembered for. So if you want to stop feeling like this, do something about it, nobody will do it for you.
The universe is about 13.5 billion years old. Our galaxy is only one of billions of galaxies in the universe. It contains billions of stars. So far, our planet is the only one we know of that has life. Out of all the life forms that have lived on Earth and who are still living, you are one of the lucky few that has enough to eat, that presumably does not have to experience violence and poverty, and that has enough free time to sit around feeling miserable and wanting to make others miserable.
If you want to spend your little, tiny bit of time in the universe aspiring to spread misery and wallowing in selfishness, then that seems rather pathetic to me.
The harsh, cold reality is that you are wasting your life by focusing on being miserable. My advice is, make an effort. It might not work, you might still end up miserable, but the alternative is to waste your luck in having been born at this time in history at this place in the universe.
Good one..i like your answer. Realizing your good fortune and insignificance is a great step towards productivity. - 16 days ago
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To be honest, you can never trust anyone but yourself. You might never know if one will backstab you, because how can you be so sure you can trust anyone? You certainly can't read their minds or anything. Violence and poverty? These people had it coming to them. They deserve their fate because someone they were close to was stupid enough to make idiotic decisions for them. I couldn't care less if I see them begging for food, cause I'd rather kick and laugh at those idiots. - 16 days ago
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You have missed the point entirely. No one is asking you to care about people and other organisms who are miserable or unfortunate. No one cares that much what you think or what you do. You are insignificant. No one cares whether you trust anyone or whether you spend all your time looking for conspiracy theories and worrying about backstabbers. If you choose to spend your time laughing and taking pleasure at the misery of unfortunate people, then you are wasting your life. However, no one cares. - 16 days ago
Yes my life and everyone else had gone thro some tough times sh*ttty if you wanna called that. did I thought about killin myself the answer NO, nothing worth killing your self or hurting others its simple as that. the things or the people who makes you feel that way try to understand the reasons behind them and compromise.
If you wanted the truth and didn't care, you wouldn't of posted anonymously. Now, I'm not attacking you as a person, I'm just saying people who want answers or truth don't often seek it mysteriously, or out of anonymity - those people usually aren't quite ready to face fears or what have you.
Instant gratification from problems comes few and far between. That's why when we're little and in school, the schools try to imbue the idea of creating goals and problem solving because instant answers are, like I said, few and far between. Which brings me to my next point: 99.9999999% of people we deal with in this world on a daily basis already have priorities and you have to put yourself in position to deal with other people with the same priority or there's a conflict of interest.
Wow a lot of jaded insecure people here (or just bitch teenaged emos who have never done a days work in there life). Life can be crap but f*** man its life you get one shot, how about you either do something to be proud of, or something fun or something that is not killing yourself. And stop making other peoples lives miserable because its laughable how childish you are being, stop being such a bitch. If you keep doing this then you'll drive everyone (or anyone whose bothered to stick around so far) close to you away and this will make you feel more like sh*t. And do you know 99.999999999999% douche bag? Because achtually I think your that 00.000000000001% that people want to avoid because he is just so unpleasant to be around. So how about you clime out of what ever hole you have dug yourself and move on. Aka stop being so weak. Its pathetic
Life sucks.. Life is hard.. There will be countless obstacles and every time you get past one and think you accomplished something, another one is gonna come right up and hold you back.. And people who are your "friends" are just fake.. No one has genuine interest in anyone unless they get something in return.. Everyone has their movites.. No one can be truly trusted.. And everyone is motivated by ONE thing: MONEY.. 99.9999999999999% of the people in this world hate each other.. and 100% of the people in this world are full of sh*t to some extent.. There is no such thing as true love.. there is only the hope that the person you can hug and kiss is returning the favor to you and you only.. No one DESERVES any kind of love except the love of their birth mothers..
We don't kill ourselves because we are afraid.. we know there is something wrong about that .. there is a gut feeling that killing yourself is not the best way to go.. so channeling your sh*t outward is the best thing for you.. But hey.. here's another bit of TRUTH.. In the real world.. which in this case is the world that we live in, making other lives miserable won't make your life any better and it won't get you anywhere in your social life, professional life or life in general.. You know what a better option is? Killing yourself..that would make others' lives much better based on what you said.. and that is the damn truth.
So why wouldn't you kill yourself, even if you had suggested it? Fear is nothing to me. I could kill myself right now, but my pride tells me another thing: to ruin other peoples' lives. Some peoples' misfortune and failure, actually makes me feel good about myself, because I know not to stoop to their level of stupidity. No one is truly equal, in a way because some people are naturally born superior, and other are naturally born inferior. They can't change their lives because they are too stupid - 16 days ago
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Your saying you take pride in ruining other peoples' lives but your also saying that their misfortunes are the cause of their own stupidity.. so I'm gonna have to agree with Anonymous User up there and say that despite the fact that you are wasting your precious life, no one really cares. sorry mate.. good luck to you.. honestly thuogh, you are a unique character.. I've never seen anyone think the way you do.. but realize that you are the unfortunate one. - 16 days ago
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I suggested that you kill yourself.. not that everyone kills themselves.. I value my life and live with a purpose so I see no need in ending it. - 16 days ago
Loll just for this fooll.. wouldn't you suggest it too if it would get it rid of one idiot who goes around making everyone else's lives miserable? - 15 days ago
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