I was diagnosed with ms 2 yrs. ago. But this was a hiatal hernia that was literally choking me. I think he wanted me to just die. He just looked into my eyes and kept telling me everything would be alright. I literally stumbled out of the car for help from a passerby. He says he feels very hurt by me saying he wants me to die. His life would certainly be much easier. He plays the pity card a lot at work, for me having ms. I don't need or want his pity, but I think he does want me dead. He could be the poor little widower. We have great insurance, so money was not the reason.
Read responses so far. My reaction is...doesn't matter what ailments you currently have - if you are having trouble breathing - and enroute to an er or have asked to be taken to one - then the other person has an obligation to get you to one.
I would be pretty damn upset if I had to leave my spouses side to find someone to get me to an emergency room. How the hell would he feel? No - his pity doesn't cut it with me. Actions speak louder than words unfortunately.
I'd be very concerned. AND I'd make alternative arrangements for future possible scenarios. Like better cell service plans, GPS tracking, emergency buttons or alarms to press that you can keep with you. There's a lot of stuff out there...start looking in to protecting yourself because clearly - he has had a huge lapse in judgement.
If you think your husband wants you dead, leave. Now.
If you're overreacting, you owe him the world's biggest apology every day for about the next 40 years. He should feel very hurt and offended. He's not a doctor. How's he to now the difference between a hernia and cramping from diarrhea? If he'd continued driving to the e.r., would you be b!tching about how he didn't pull of the road and show you any attention?
How long have you been married? Is it possible that you are mis-interpreting what happened? It sounds like he was scared for you and may have been in a state of shock. Maybe this is why he just pulled over? If he didn't care then I don't think he would've looked into your eyes and reassure you. Those are signs of reassurance. If you both haven't done so already, maybe you need to discuss a plan of action. If the symptoms or side effects start, have something in place to do so there is no questioning. You both need each other and have to work together. I am not sure if this is an option or not. Good luck.
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