He noticed me first. His silent, deep-eyed stares made me like him back. We kinda became friends but it's still there. The attraction. I can't hardly be around him without feeling this magnetic pull, like I'm fighting this invisible force reeling me into his arms.
He can talk to anyone but me. He tries and he stutters a bit or asks questions I know he already knows the answer to. Or his voice will go soft and deep. Almost like he's trying to sound nonchalant. And the way he looks into my eyes. I can't breathe. I can't think.
My questions:
Do guys experience these same feelings?
How long does it take to get over a crush when the girl has it bad for you, too?
I totally know what you mean. Like this hyper-awareness of them? You just KNOW they are looking at you and when you glance, sure enough they look away or adjust their gaze slightly because they were watching out of the corner of their eye?
When she comes up to talk to you are you relieved or still nervous? Sometimes when I do that he seems...almost annoyed because he's trying to act so cool but then he'll open up and talk. So odd! But I sometimes do the same thing. - 13 days ago
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yea I've just recently experienced this with a girl at work. She broke the ice and is always joking and smiling when talking to me. However, lately she dropped off a bit so I decided to start initiating the conversation, but since I'm quite shy I tend to stutter as well. I try to look into her eyes and she does it back and gives me a smile. However, I'm just way too shy and I think she's way out of my league.
The other day she left me absolutely breathless when she turned her head back and I looked up... our eyes met and just locked there for at least 3 seconds and she just gave a even bigger smile while we stared into each others' eyes and she tilted her head slightly. so yea definitely guys can experience those feelings too.
Wow, she is giving you BIG come-hither looks! Lucky guy. :) She would like your attention please!
Take it from a pretty girl, the guys 'in our league' are users and players. Our looks have gotten us way too much attention and all we want is a sweet guy who is kind to us and won't hurt us. I had the hots for guys my friends thought were ugly and I had such a hard time getting the boy because he didn't think I could REALLY like him. Heartbreaking. Don't put her through that! Grab her! - 13 days ago
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I stuffed up... I saw her again and as soon as I said hi to her she started playing with her earrings while talking to me, then she said I smell nice. Anyway I didn't manage to ask her out and I've just been told that I'm getting transferred to elsewhere effective immediately... so it's unlikely I'll see her again... so unless I go to that place while I'm off work, I think I'm gonna have to break her heart and it's tearing me apart as well... :( - 9 days ago
Oh my gosh yes! We certainly do so much. You had better believe he feels the same way. He is trying to give you those looks and such to make you feel the way you do. To be honest though, he does not know that everything he does makes you feel the way you do.
As for the second question, I can't lie. I'm not quite sure what you are asking. If you are wondering when he will open up to you, it may be a while. He feels exactly how you do but he is scared to make another step cause he does not want to say something that will scare you off. If you want him to make a move, you should probably send out harder signals letting him know you like him (many guys are used to seeing girls be really flirty. So this makes it hard to read signals sometimes) or you could take the initiative and ask him if he likes you. Just one or the other. Eventually he will crack =)
Found out he does NOT like forward girls EVER and takes things really slooooooow. It's funny, he gets along easily with girls but can barely stay calm around me. Still, every other time I'm around him I wonder if I've made it all up. Maybe he's staring because I'm *just* pretty and that's it in his mind. (The 'out of my league' thing gets SO old. I like you dammit! Why is that so hard to believe?) How long does it take for a guy to talk himself out of his crush? - 14 days ago
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One more question:
Can a guy get over a crush if the girl is staring back and giving him subtle hints, too? - 14 days ago
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That's strange. Hmmm. Even going slow though, officially dating a girl is the first step. That's not moving too fast. You haven't even started til then. There has to be more to it. You like him. Want me to tell him he should go ahead and date you and stop beating around the bush for you? Lol. Jk - 14 days ago
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I guess it is possible for him to get over the girl if she is doing that but it is not likely. If the girl is giving those kind of hints and such and he at least has the slightest feelings for her, he will not let go anytime soon - 14 days ago
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