Why is it that some guys assume the girl is asking for negative attention or is a slut?

Reading comprehension comes in to play as well. I am sure there are people that will just read a few keys words, then proceed to answer the question based off an assumption. The Internet also provides a new way to be a jerk. Anonymity + Internet (Audience) = Jerk

I really don't even answer the questions on this site if I think the question asker is posting it solely for attention. Not worth the time, or the trolls.

I might actually be guilty of this one. I try to be very fair about not labeling anyone as anything till I meet them, unfortunately, I don't have that option on this site. I like to be more careful to give out advice on here than in person, so occasionally, I might come off as giving a girl a more negative outlook than she probably deserves.

Others might make the same misconception as well. They follow their own life experience and label girls what they experience them to be in their life. Or, they might try to get who you're talking about into perspective, and go off of exactly what you say they are. Since you're obviously coming on here with a problem, the girl may be pushed in the general direction of negative.

It's all about intention. What is the intention of the lady? Do I wear this shirt because I think it looks cute, or because I know guys will look at me and think my body is beautiful. That's what makes the girl negative in her thinking. Her intention.

Unfortunately, there are some shallow minded people who will always think negatively of anybody who asks, talks about or seek sex. That is just how American culture is. This site intended for the quest for knowledge and only for that. Not for dating or for making judgment of others. People really want to know things that they cannot ask parents, peers or teachers. Therefore, wiser and mature folks will give them the best answers we can. there are a few here who's answers and questions I dislike greatly yet I give them the respect and space they deserve like a good man I try to be at all times.

I wish that I had such assess to internet and places like this was a teen. I had to find out about dating and sex the hard way.

Attention whores might be. But sex crazed I wouldn't say so ;-)

People who are answering just read the scenario made up by the question asker, try to put this in their own boots and just go ahead with whatever either they have faced in reality or with what their own make believe story can make it sound good.

Surely don understand what's the big part of getting touchy. The asker has all the time in the world to disagree with the comment put up or for that matter report to the admin if their feelings get retrograded. Somehow :-)

Actually, let this be a wake up call of the real world for you. People will answer your questions according to their own realities. And just like you think people on this site assume a girl is a slut, or assume whatever, people in the real world who you interact with on a daily basis do the same.

At least on this site you get to read people's opinion's; out in the real world, you can only guess what others think of you. So if you were to be clever and you wanted to take full advantage of the advice you get on this site, then maybe instead of complaining that people assume certain opinions about the questions you ask, you should rather take a look at the responses, and think that just like you get all types of answers here, out in the world, people will be doing the same, and most likely, somebody out there, will have the same view of the person who answered here. I suppose that's why we got the agree/disagree functionality.

So bottom line, be grateful for the responses you get, because I'm sure guys answer to their best of their abilities, given their own experiences. And just because you don't like the answer, doesn't mean somebody out there, won't have the same opinion.

Why is it that you are complaining about advice you get on here. You ask a question where thousands of people look and give their input. Chances are, you're going to get some advice that you don't agree with. If you don't like the advice, ignore it, and move on to the next response. Are you really that bored that you're going to ask a new question asking about why you get certain advice that you got on another question? Don't ask a question if you're going to complain about advice you get.