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Is it harder to make a move if you really like her?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 9 months ago
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Is it true the more a guy really likes a girl (esp shy guys) the more difficult it is for him to flirt with her and make a move?

Is it like a catch 22 - the more you like them - the more impossible you find it to act on it (cos of rejection etc)?

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soxfan94 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Yeah it's true. It makes sense if you think about it. If the guy is so-so about the girl, or just looking for a hook-up, then he doesn't have much to lose. But if he thinks that he's found a great girl that he could be with in a serious relationship, there's a lot more at stake. As a result, he's probably going to be more nervous about making sure that he doesn't mess it up.
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Question Asker Hmm. Yeah both these answers make total sense in fairness. It's funny tho, the one person you want is the one person you can't bring yourself to make a move on or ask out etc. Yet you could come onto any other person no problem. (but they're not the one you really want! ) So ironic! - 9 months ago

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BringerofDawn (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
I think it is actually easier to flirt, because you can be yourself. You are capable of flirting much more proficiently if your heart is into it.

It is MUCH harder to ask her out though. When you are infatuated with a girl, it just gets that much harder, you want more than anything to be with them, but are terrified of not being good enough for them.
If you love them before the relationship, then it is enormously hard to ask them out, or anything above flirting.
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