Ok I've been hanging out with this girl. We're not dating but we've been hanging out. Recently something seems different. I couldn't put my finger on it at first but I finally figured it out.
Ok during the first 6 months of hanging out with her we did nothing but talk. A lot, and it was great and then we moved to her staying over and cuddling. She would tell me so much, she would draw pictures and we would E-mail each other talking online a bunch of times. Asking each other questions and talking about our opinions. Now things have changed, we're a little closer then cuddling now, She lets me kiss her, as a matter of fact she let out a soft moan and said my nick name when I was kissing her neck. Which was more open then she use to be.
BUT, (there's always a but, isn't there) Now it seems that she's cut me off emotionally. She never answers any of my questions over E-mail. I mean Any, Like she said she was sick from to much drinking. I asked if she threw up. Nothing. Small stuff simple stuff. She doesn't show me her art book anymore. She use to show it to me all the time. It seems like there's a wall. It's really hard to notice, Like I said she's more affectionate, and we can talk when were together.
But now she doesn't show me her drawings, answer my E-mail questions, or even joke fart. Ok I know that last one sounds stupid but technically you'd have to be really comfortable around someone to do that right? Why is she hiding art stuff now and not answering my questions?
It sounds like she has developed feelings for you, which can easily cause a girl to go from comfortable to nervous around a guy that she has known. I'd say if you are interested to try taking it to the next level and see what she says (go on a date or something), because I really think it sounds like she might like you.
Ask to see her drawings. If she won't show you, ask her why. Ask her why she doesn't reply to your questions in email- don't accuse her, just ask!
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