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Is it just me?

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mentalmentaljade (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I'm single. 5"1, curvy, not at all overweight, I'm told I'm gorgeous and I don't think I have any personality flaws, though I've been single for years and I think it's because I'm being picky.

I've had guys ask me out of course, but I've turned them down, because I seem to attract the unintelligent idiots that couldn't put a sentence together for the life of them. nice guys and all, but I don't think I could spend a long amount of time with them or be enchanted by them.

am I just being picky? or is it just the guys in the area I'm in.
or is it just the age? 20s?


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ILoveElectroHouse
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ILoveElectroHouse      When: 4 months ago
go to eharmony.com =]
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trafficjammer      When: 4 months ago
I really, really doubt that all guys are unintelligent idiots and that you're the only person who has to deal with people that you don't find intellectually compatible. But then, I look again and I wonder what the question you're asking is. Are you picky? Maybe. But what does that have to do with anything at all? Some people stay single because they don't like most other people. Good for them. Some people don't like being single so they settle. Which one are you? It sure seems like the former, so don't regret not being the latter.
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Question Asker I'm not saying that all guys are untelligent idiots, it's just the offers I've had over the past while are really just not what I'm looking for, and that while has been so long my faith in finding a compatible significant other is dwindling - 4 months ago
Answerer Let's go on a date. - 4 months ago

Mikayah
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Mikayah      When: 4 months ago
Nice picture. I would say that you're not being picky at all. Cute girls make most guys unconfined. Only the bumbling idiots have the courage to ask you out. You should go and try asking guys out. It may feel odd, but you can decide who you want to maybe be with this way. Instead of random guys asking you out.
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jeniilove      When: 3 months ago
I am the same wayyy!
I mean, I know I'm cute -- I WAS getting hit on, phone numbers and random texts here and there. But it was ME who didn't want to take the chance, mainly cause I wasn't interested.
When ever I DID find a potential -- I barely started a relationship because I would end it so fast. You see, I've seen a lot of my friends in relationship after relationship -- and heartbreak after heartbreak -- and that just wasn't for me.
So I would push them away -- it was better to end it early -- I certainly don't wanna waste my time -- or their's.
There was only one problem: I wanted a relationship, but every single "potential" didn't make the cut. I guess I was waiting for one that I think would be worth it.

and the one happen to come along and so far I've stuck by him.

So I think being picky is never a bad thing. Sometimes you just know what you want and you're just waiting for him to come along. :)
and I know this is soooo cliche, but it really does happen when you least expect it to...

:) hope that helped!
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Question Asker Thanks, that's nicely reassuring (:
- 3 months ago
Answerer Any time dear.
just have patience. don't even think too much on it.
go along with your life. go to events and parties with friends.
you'll be sure to meet someone great and perfect for youuuu!!! :D - 3 months ago
 
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