A guy I like has asked me if I he can kiss me. the problem is we are not dating. We both know that we like each other, but he says commitment is like kryptonite. And says "but for you I will try" ahh...i don't know .
I would do it as a girl. Depends on what kinda kiss tho. If you don't want sex then don't lead him on by kissing him with out a commitment, that tells him that if he grinds you he can hit it without commitment too. If you don't care about that then do it, but if you do keep the upper hand and make him wait to prove him self to you he's not there just to have sex and in the process you will trap him to be in love with you.
But if he gets mad because you won't kiss him and tells you to f*** off or something like that because you resist sexual urges he is only after one thing. Cool?
Kryptonite WTF lol. Go for it , see how it go's but make sure in the future he doesn't say kryptonite again little child like lol! - 8 months ago
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Hah. I know! That word kryptonite, it was a little odd. but for RFRFRF, I think you missed understood what I meant by commitment, he doesn't want to have sex with me (or at least I don't think he dooesnt) he just does not to be in a relationship. - 8 months ago
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When you like someone, you want to have to have sex with them, so you can better express yourself. Its animal nature, if he says he don't he's lying. Its human nature to want to sexually please someone you like. The more I like someone the more I want to create pleasure on them. Now wanting and taking action are two different things. Trust me he wants to, if he doesn't he not human. He might be shy and or afraid of what you might think that's y he says no. But its animal nature to sexually desire. - 8 months ago
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Lol. good point. never thought of it that way. - 8 months ago
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People that do not want a relationship are in the playing mode. They don't know what they want. And people that don't know what they want are dangerous because they can easily hurt someone. - 8 months ago
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People like that are just trying to get in your pants. You should say no.
I've not heard anything like this before. I'd say that you could go ahead and do it once. From there, try leading him on a bit, remember that if the kiss is good, you have more power in the relationship.
You have something to dangle in front of him, If he wants more, then he should start going out with you, then you can take things as quickly or as slowly as you want from there.
Kissing before dating I would say is fine. If you like him, kiss him. If he likes you theirs nothing wrong with kissing. As for the "kryptonite" comment he just doesn't know how good commitment can be. Being with the same person can be very rewarding.
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