Will I mature or not?

You will if you want to, but it won't fall out the sky. You have to go get it: the man, the job, the house, everything.

Welcome to adulthood.

You will never mature, that is correct. At least, that is the mindset you have to have.

It's so easy to assume that everything will work out nicely after college, because how else could you justify being told what to do for all those years? No one really wants to go to school, but we do it anyway. So let's just assume along the way that once college is over, things we get great for us. Ahh... you see where this is going.

Anyway all you can do is get used to how things are now. And if you can't do that, then go ahead and hate it. Hate life. Hate your parents. Hate yourself. Just learn to hate effectively rather than impotently.

Maturity is the sign of your careness and understanding of small things that built-up large plots.
Remove negativity.Always be happy even you are sad.Go for the job,marraige and commit yourself into it.Your desires needs your inner confidence so always take chances.
When you think no for something then just call yes from mouth.It will boost your confidence and courage to say yes.
Living happy and funny doesn't mean that you are immature.

Thnx

You have to go after this stuff. I and my friends ate burritos almost every night for two years to afford out apartment. I worked 18 hours per day all the way through college to get good enough grades to get into grad school. I bugged people until I got a job and I did not rest until I found one. This is the kind of competition you are up against. It sounds like you need to step up your efforts if you want to change your lifestyle.

For me, the hard work has been worth it. I don't have a house yet--you can't do everything--but I am happy in my career and in my lifestyle.

I suggest you move out of home and go all out to find a job. Even if you have to take one you don't like at first. Accept that you will have to make sacrifices to get what you want. This is the only way you will develop the motivation and independence you need to make yourself happy.

What you need to do is get motivated/ find out what exactly you want out of life and make it happen your future is in your hands/take advantage of it. The sex thing can wait/its over rated so just focus on the things that will benefit your life in a positive way.