I'm falling for him....but I can't be, What would you do?

Well, first of all, it's perfectly normal to have a crush on other guys, especially ones that you get along with well. Sadly, you do have a boyfriend, and it seems like you do care about him and his feelings. are you still able to completely focus on your boyfriend when he comes back to visit you? if so, then this crush hasn't gone too far yet. but if you think about this guy even on the rare occasions that your boyfriend visits or calls, then I see a strong emotional bond starting and you might want to think about which guy you would rather be with and make a choice before you hurt either one. especially the new guy, you don't want to lead him on too much...

Before you let things go any farther, you need to consider that fact you you have a boyfriend. If he is not your boyfriend and you are just "waiting" for him then you have the right to be moving on with your life and dating other people unless you still want to have a future with your significant other. Though if he is your boyfriend. And you want to continue seeing this new guy, you've got to let your boyfriend know that you want to try seeing other people and maybe he should do the same. Because obviously, he had left you for his job so is shows that there were more important things to him. I always say that you are not wrong until you cross over that line of unfaithfulness (cheating). You should never try to hurt anyone but if there comes a time where there's no other option make sure you do it in a right way. Which makes it appropriate for you. By which telling your boyfriend the truth.