I'm 20 year old guy, I met this girl about 2 months ago at the gym, and she was hot and cold for the first few weeks (probably because I tried to make a move on her the first time we hung out, but in all honesty, she was the one that REALLY WANTED to hang out that first night, for example:IMed me a lot, said she wanted to hang out, gave me her number without me even asking for it) anyway, like I said, for a while after that, I would try to talk to her and she just wouldn't really be friendly back(she told me she was having problems with her grandma being sick)
however, about 3 weeks ago it all changed: whenever she saw me at the gym, she wanted me to be by her, asked me to go to her house, asked me to go walk around the lake with her, texted me when I had an MRI to see how it went, asked me to go get coffee with her.
I MEAN, AREN'T THOSE SIGNS THAT A GIRL IS INTERESTED IN YOU AS MORE THAN JUST A FRIEND?
So, this past Saturday we went to get ice cream, and I still hadn't made a move since that first night. So, while I'm taking her home that night, I ask her how she feels about us, and she goes.
"well ur a nice guy, and I like hanging out with u, but I thought it was understood that we were just friends, but I just don't feel a connection, AT LEAST NOT RIGHT NOW" so I just told her that I am interested in her, and that was pretty much it.
And the thing is, I REALLY LIKE HER, she's pretty, nice, funny, and not A CRAZY WILD GIRL THAT LIKES TO GO OUT AND PARTY AND GET DRUNK. She's just my type. So I don't know if I should just not really talk to her for a while and play it cool, OR tell her exactly how I feel and how special I think she is and that I hope she can just keep an open mind about us possibly in the future being something more than just friends. And the past few days she is still texting me and IMing me. What do you think?
Wow she sounds like she's confused. I don't mean to be negative but are you sure that she's not seeing someone right now? Well in any case I would say that she is interested and I consider all of those as signs as interest. At least it's what I would do or it could be that she just really wants a friend but if you tried to make a move and everything she's taking advantage. But in any case hang in there I think she's interested and she'll come around in time she may just be testing the waters.
If she's as special to you as you say she is, you should take her however you can get her. Friends or more than such. However, you can't go on without telling her exactly how you feel. If she doesn't want you as more than friends after that, then you have to be patient to see how she really feels about you. And if it appears that she hasn't changed, its time to move on in that search. But remain her friend. It never hurts to have an extra friend.
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