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Whats the point of someone liking you if they push you away?

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quepasamama (Age:18 to 24)     When: 8 months ago
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This guy and I had been seeing each other on and off for the past 5-6 months and incidents have happened to where he made up this grand idea of saying he played me which I know is bs but yet to be cool he says I'm some psycho and I'm obsessed when really its not like that at all he is just trying to make himself look good in front of friends and what not.

I know he still likes me but I don't get why he just pushes me further and further? I've heard from people he has been hurt in the past but that doesn't mean he needs to hurt me. This guy is basically my other half and he knows it too but how can one be so f***in scared?

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RFRFRF (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
Well it sounds like he feels like he got played, that's y he might be saying that. yeah he probably listen to his friends.. a lot of people instead of communicating with their significant other they communicate with their f***ed up friends and their friends pup up their head with all this crap, happen to me recently, and its usually bs and lies right, then they attack you based on what their friends put in their head.

his friends might think you playing him, so I would ask if he thinks you plain him and ask he thinks that, and ask if that's what ur friends said or that what you got on you own.. and watch how he responds, you know what I mean he might try to hide its his friends because he don't want to look like a punk now. well you gotta communicate with him with out yelling..

its good to start out conversations like I love you baby and ..... and say I love you a lot in these sensitive conversations, so it will defuse any anger and reduce resistance. good?
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
The guys sounds like an ass. Him telling people he played you and calling you an obsessed psycho is a sign that he DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU and has no respect for you or your relationship. I'm sorry but he is no good. A mature guy does not need to degrade someone he supposedly cares about to make himself look good in front of his friends. Don't settle for this ass, he is not the one. The One is going to be a guy who is respectful of you and won't take his past out on you.
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nique23 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
He doesn't sound scared of you. He sounds full of himself in which why would you want to be with someone like that? Have you actually taken the time to realize the b. S. He's said about you? Your psycho, and he ''played '' you. He doesn't sound like your other half more like a douche. Him being hurt in the past is no excuse. If this how he acts now. One can only imagine. Do what you feel , but seriously do the right thing. Do you know how many guys would treat you with respect? ( and not just when no one else isn't around) Choose wisely
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