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Why would a guy do this?

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quepasamama (Age:18 to 24)     When: 8 months ago
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Basically right now I'm in the position where this guy I was seeing says that he was playing me all along (total BS) and the last time I had talked to him was in person at his house making him tell me to my face he "played me" and lol.

I punched him and then his friends drove up and then he was acting like an even bigger douche to look all good in front of them. But w/e. What happened was I had this strong urge out of no where to text him. I don't know why. I just sent him 'i don't know why you're doing this. You don't need to reply back id rather you not'

then he sends a text ' who is this and wtf did I do' about a minute later he starts calling me and I keep hanging up on him because he called like 5 times and I sent a text saying why are you calling if you don't know who this is and he said 'i realized it was you after blahblah'

now, I know he knew it was me to begin with but I don't get why if he 'doesn't care' he cares to call like a bunch of times. On one of the calls I picked up and he starts to say I just don't get why you'd call me I haven't talked to you since you punched me (chuckle) and I said to him 'why does it even matter? You shouldn't even be on the phone with me why are you calling? '

and he was saying 'well I was just wondering I mean blah blah I haven thought bout you - ' and I hung up yet still continues to argue thru texting.

He wouldn't stop arguing with me after I left his house after I punched him. I left my phone at home because I had to sneak out and forgot the cell so when I got back home I see I have missed calls from him, text messages, and I got online and he ims me. OKAY we dealt with the situation already it ended at his house. He doesn't need to do anything more. WHY BOTHER? RIGHT?

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RFRFRF (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
Well he acted like he didn't know who it was just to piss you off even tho he did know because he was mad at you. he does care he is mad at you for punching him, and probably a couple other things. he is just trying to play it off, dud f***in likes you, if he didn't he wouldn't talk to you. that part is simple. well the problem here is communication, you guys are mad at each other and not communicating it properly..

why do people fight? because they can't communicate properly. why did you punch him, because you couldn't communicate properly to him y you mad. and sense you don't do that he gets mad at you and tries to play it off like he don't care. because he can't communicate to you either.. its a young thing to play games, but proper communication always fixes the problems. but if you really like him and want to be with him despite the drama that was caused then fix it. if not move on. because me anytime I have a problem in my relationships in my head I put that is was my fault there fore I can find a solution and are more willing to solve it.. even tho its not, I always attract the psychos, but it puts you in the driver seat to attack the problem.. good?
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AOgixxer750 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
It seems that you like the drama. your the one that texted him first to start all this. if you were done with it then you shouldn't have texted him. live and learn eh. move on from this guy cause it seems that he's just trying to be rad in front of his friends and when it comes down to just the 2 of you, he's a pussy trying to be a player. forget him
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