I know him for 3 months but we're so closed. My guy friend is very comfortable around me. He always fart, burb, do something nasty around me a lot. I normally tell him to stop every times he does those things and his respond was " it come with the package" Recently, I kinda get used to it so, I didn't say a thing. He was the one who mentioned that how come I didn't say anything.
When talking to me, he often calls me Man, dude, girl friend. He also curse a lot around me too. Sometimes I think he might be too comfortable and think of me as one of his guy friends?
There are other mixed up signs, he hugs me, compliments me, smiles at me, we make a lot of eyes contacts, say that he misses me because he misses all the fun, tell me to dream of him when we chat at night, he wants me in his life, he asks me to watch his softball every sunday because he said he'll play better if I'm his fan etc. ( is he just flirting with me or liking me? )
He told me his love stories one day. He had 2 girlfriend and dated 2 girls but they all broke up with him. He told me he liked one of his girl friends and when he asked her to move on to the next level, she said No, just stayed friend. He told me that he'll never make a first move again! (is this some clue, he tries to tell me? )
I don't know. I like hanging out with him alone a lot. We went biking alone, shopping alone, having lunch at the park, eating & sharing the same food, drink etc.
I asked him on AIM, what am I to him and he said I'm his friend but closer than other girl friends. I said thank you for being my friend. Does that mean I'm just a friend to him? More than friend? Is there a chance we can become more than friend? I don't wanna make a first move because I'm afraid to loose him. I'm all confused.
Guys or girls here please help me figure it out or what to do. Thanks so much! :)
Whoa, this dude's cutting the cheese and you still like him? Where are the other girls like you, I would be embarrassed if I let loose. But seriously, if this guy is turning up his butt to pass gas and goes back casually to eating his ham sandwich, he doesn't give a damn about you in that sense. I never pass gas in front of girls and certainly not ones that I like. I want them to think highly of me and farting would just make them think I'm gross. Honestly though, when you asked him "what am I to you? " The green light went off in his head, "why would she ask me this? " He knew then what to say. You noticed how you've never farted around him? You don't because you're not gross like that and because you like him. Whenever I'm too comfortable around someone it means that they are a friend and that they are a guy. I don't know where this guy gets off being so comfortable in public, he just must not give a damn. And as for can you guys become more than friends? The only way to turn up a guy's knob is to turn up the heat. Dress well and look good for him, maybe then he'll start to get the picture and start lusting.
Thanks for your answer. I know I think it's gross too lol. I think the same too. Guy will not do these gross things to the girl he likes. Maybe it's much better to stay as friend :) - 5 months ago
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